soooooooooo, how many turned u down so far?

we gals get turned down too

not what you expected I guess.....all I can say is keep trying. have some manners, ditch the 'tude and be prepared to not get too personal too soon

avoid talk about things like sex, money, marriage until you know someone very well on here or at least until after you have met and know for certain that there is mutual interest - and mutual means SHE has also agreed that she is interested. good luck

As one of the older; in both age & membership time; members of this site; going clear back to "Just Say HI", why don't you people look for "real friendship" FIRST. There are fantastic people here. I have known many for YEARS, we have met, enjoyed good times & NEVER worried about trying to trick eachother, IN ANY MANNER. Good GOD, people. Participate in the threads. Chat with people & GET TO KNOW THEM. Try to meet if you can. Get over all the games & worries. If you can't smell scammer, tlak to the mod's, PRIVATELY. Bet they will help guide you. I see many that set their limits so tight, NO WONDER (to me), they think this place is worthless. Life is full of risks & if you are afraid of conversation, odds are you will never meet anyone.

"DOING THE SAME THING, OVER & OVER. WHILE EXPECTING DIFFERENT RESULTS? INSANITY.

OPINION of an OLD SAGE, long time member & ling time student of life's hard knocks.

I agree oldsage. people sometimes come on here expecting "love in bottle" wrapped up & ready to go. not very realistic. when I first joined I was sort of like that too.

but no, it's not a menu.

Just incase this is a menu ill take a redhead with long legs :P

There is a menu?

Why didn't someone tell me sooner?

Has this thread helped you get what you're looking for?

i am real baby!!!


Come here and let me eat you up!.....and

spit out your spine!

I met some nice, interesting, intelligent Men on Mingle, problem is they live out of State so it is hard to ask them out to coffee or whatever right up front. One lives in Illinois but he want to meet near a Truck stop and I don't do Truck stops.

how can you tell????????????

just for you . and i'm been nice

Gee, I was told I could be funny but never called a joke.

well lol they kinda just randomly leave after syaing a bunch of meaningful thing that can be believed but can be figured out very quickly on the fakeness and kinda hint it then there gone for real cause they know i sense it... they make it obvious thats why i think a lot of these women just need some attention from many people... maybe?

im legit in anything i say and express maybe u can say, what im after and only continues if ur interested because i know how this is going to end which is after they say there interested and say thier "lies" then randomly leave or think of some amazingly stupid reason why which doesnt make sense because of past things that hve been said which makes them a big liar... ya know what i mean?

im sorry.. i think you look like a badass and probably better, the stuff ive seen on your profile!

haha u not sure what that meant but alright! :p

wasnt planning on it and nope :p

im fine with being single in life its all i know haha!

lemme see idk what ta say lol but um maybe its not insanity its just hope of a change in women becuase they have been degrading faster and faster in time in being legit and a good person maybe they are young ones and my age generation but i see it in all ages too i doesnt make sense but i do know men are pigs and these sites really show ya if u ask any women here lol! idk if i said right :) idk what im tryin to say

ill get rid of em all haha! mod? lol :p jk

Perhaps less generalization would be beneficial for you. The online world is just like the real world ... only jacked up and amplified. You will find wonderful, honest, caring people and you will find liars, cheaters, and scammers.

Just use your awareness and you will be just fine.

yes of course but the internet is full of bs thats what probably like 90% lol :p

no but im just saying its so anoyying and ruines the site i think in a way

If you have a solution, I am sure they would love to hear about it.

i will filter them all!! uahahahaa!! no but or u mean the internet? :) lets hope for a solar storm soon like maybe it would be big emp.. problems solved! haha