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Topic: whats wrong with me?
sari2013's photo
Tue 12/11/12 06:24 PM
I dont understand..i have excellent hygiene, always smell good, impeccable dresser, kind, attentive, honest, drama free, fun loving, calm very communicative and yet I can't find someone to love me. Do I have to bash a guy over the head to bring him home with me? Caveman style?
Everytime I meet someone they just want to hop in the sac. Whatever happened to getting to know each other first and find compatibility to analyze if the relationship will even last. I dont want to jump from bed to bed..just to get to know a man..am I wrong?

BettyB's photo
Tue 12/11/12 06:27 PM
No.. you are not wrong at all.

Christinacospgs's photo
Tue 12/11/12 06:28 PM
Poor Sari! I think your pic looks awesome. I can empathize, I don't like being treated just as an object! I like to get to know someone, form a relationship. It seems that these days things are not as geared in that direction. Maybe I'm wrong, but that's what I am sensing.

sari2013's photo
Tue 12/11/12 06:31 PM
Thanks for the compliment..yes, I noticed that nowadays intimacy has lost its purpose and guys just want to release and then say "hay by the way I dont think we are compatible"

Dodo_David's photo
Tue 12/11/12 06:34 PM

Do I have to bash a guy over the head to bring him home with me? Caveman style?


No, of course not. Here is what you do:

First, you adjust your Mingle2 mail filter so that someone as old as me can send you messages. bigsmile

Second . . . [To be continued.]


no photo
Tue 12/11/12 06:39 PM

I dont understand..i have excellent hygiene, always smell good, impeccable dresser, kind, attentive, honest, drama free, fun loving, calm very communicative and yet I can't find someone to love me. Do I have to bash a guy over the head to bring him home with me? Caveman style?
Everytime I meet someone they just want to hop in the sac. Whatever happened to getting to know each other first and find compatibility to analyze if the relationship will even last. I dont want to jump from bed to bed..just to get to know a man..am I wrong?



really. and where do guys get the expectation that this is acceptable? (to want to hop in the sack right away)

I think it's partly online - a larger proportion of the casual sex community is on here and also the anonymity online gives those losers bold courage.

I think it's best not to look at the online venue as the only way to meet someone

sari2013's photo
Tue 12/11/12 06:50 PM
The ones that want to jump in the sac are not necessarily from online venues.

Christinacospgs's photo
Tue 12/11/12 06:50 PM


Do I have to bash a guy over the head to bring him home with me? Caveman style?


No, of course not. Here is what you do:

First, you adjust your Mingle2 mail filter so that someone as old as me can send you messages. bigsmile

Second . . . [To be continued.]




laugh laugh laugh
you so rock.

sari2013's photo
Tue 12/11/12 06:54 PM


No, of course not. Here is what you do:

First, you adjust your Mingle2 mail filter so that someone as old as me can send you messages. bigsmile

Second . . . [To be continued.]




Yea? Second?

no photo
Tue 12/11/12 06:55 PM

The ones that want to jump in the sac are not necessarily from online venues.


true

but - they're all like thatlaugh


I do think that online gives them a bit more courage on chat, for example, than they might have otherwise

at least that has been my expereince

sari2013's photo
Tue 12/11/12 07:08 PM
Yea they are all mostly like that..there is a saying in Spanish and im going to roughly translate it. Woman have sex when they want to, men have sex when they can.

Christinacospgs's photo
Tue 12/11/12 07:14 PM

Yea they are all mostly like that..there is a saying in Spanish and im going to roughly translate it. Woman have sex when they want to, men have sex when they can.


tongue2 shades drinker

Dodo_David's photo
Tue 12/11/12 07:20 PM

Yea they are all mostly like that..there is a saying in Spanish and im going to roughly translate it. Woman have sex when they want to, men have sex when they can.


Oh, so that is what my late wife was saying for all those years.
She spoke in her native language whenever she didn't want me to understand her.

Dodo_David's photo
Tue 12/11/12 07:23 PM



No, of course not. Here is what you do:

First, you adjust your Mingle2 mail filter so that someone as old as me can send you messages. bigsmile

Second . . . [To be continued.]




Yea? Second?


Second: You tolerate Melmacians.

Third: [To be continued.]

Dodo_David's photo
Tue 12/11/12 07:23 PM



No, of course not. Here is what you do:

First, you adjust your Mingle2 mail filter so that someone as old as me can send you messages. bigsmile

Second . . . [To be continued.]




Yea? Second?


Second: You tolerate Melmacians.

Third: [To be continued.]

no photo
Tue 12/11/12 07:41 PM

Yea they are all mostly like that..there is a saying in Spanish and im going to roughly translate it. Woman have sex when they want to, men have sex when they can.
rofl rofl :thumbsup:

Goofball73's photo
Tue 12/11/12 09:18 PM
Actually....it ain't just men who want to jump sac to sac. Women do this....and then want guys to not feel attached, want to be held, cook and clean, etc. Sigh! It's a tough world.

no photo
Wed 12/12/12 09:41 AM

I dont understand..i have excellent hygiene, always smell good, impeccable dresser, kind, attentive, honest, drama free, fun loving, calm very communicative and yet I can't find someone to love me. Do I have to bash a guy over the head to bring him home with me? Caveman style?
Everytime I meet someone they just want to hop in the sac. Whatever happened to getting to know each other first and find compatibility to analyze if the relationship will even last. I dont want to jump from bed to bed..just to get to know a man..am I wrong?


Yes

sari2013's photo
Wed 12/12/12 06:42 PM
2Keith- yes to what part?

no photo
Wed 12/12/12 06:46 PM

Actually....it ain't just men who want to jump sac to sac. Women do this....and then want guys to not feel attached, want to be held, cook and clean, etc. Sigh! It's a tough world.

did u finish those dishes yet?

now get back in the bed!!!spock










:laughing:

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