I dont understand..i have excellent hygiene, always smell good, impeccable dresser, kind, attentive, honest, drama free, fun loving, calm very communicative and yet I can't find someone to love me. Do I have to bash a guy over the head to bring him home with me? Caveman style?
Everytime I meet someone they just want to hop in the sac. Whatever happened to getting to know each other first and find compatibility to analyze if the relationship will even last. I dont want to jump from bed to bed..just to get to know a man..am I wrong?

No.. you are not wrong at all.

Poor Sari! I think your pic looks awesome. I can empathize, I don't like being treated just as an object! I like to get to know someone, form a relationship. It seems that these days things are not as geared in that direction. Maybe I'm wrong, but that's what I am sensing.

Thanks for the compliment..yes, I noticed that nowadays intimacy has lost its purpose and guys just want to release and then say "hay by the way I dont think we are compatible"

No, of course not. Here is what you do:

First, you adjust your Mingle2 mail filter so that someone as old as me can send you messages.

Second . . . [To be continued.]

really. and where do guys get the expectation that this is acceptable? (to want to hop in the sack right away)

I think it's partly online - a larger proportion of the casual sex community is on here and also the anonymity online gives those losers bold courage.

I think it's best not to look at the online venue as the only way to meet someone

The ones that want to jump in the sac are not necessarily from online venues.

you so rock.

No, of course not. Here is what you do:

First, you adjust your Mingle2 mail filter so that someone as old as me can send you messages.

Second . . . [To be continued.]




Yea? Second?

true

but - they're all like that


I do think that online gives them a bit more courage on chat, for example, than they might have otherwise

at least that has been my expereince

Yea they are all mostly like that..there is a saying in Spanish and im going to roughly translate it. Woman have sex when they want to, men have sex when they can.

Oh, so that is what my late wife was saying for all those years.
She spoke in her native language whenever she didn't want me to understand her.

Yea? Second?


Second: You tolerate Melmacians.

Third: [To be continued.]

Yea? Second?


Second: You tolerate Melmacians.

Third: [To be continued.]

Actually....it ain't just men who want to jump sac to sac. Women do this....and then want guys to not feel attached, want to be held, cook and clean, etc. Sigh! It's a tough world.

Yes

2Keith- yes to what part?

did u finish those dishes yet?

now get back in the bed!!!