Topic: Betrayal!!
jordan227's photo
Sun 12/02/12 04:10 AM
Would you forgive your partner for cheating on you with one of your friends??? Honest answers???

Muaness's photo
Sun 12/02/12 04:19 AM
If by forgiving you mean getting back together, then NO is my answer. We are talking of mutuality here. We would just be friends nothing more.

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Sun 12/02/12 05:37 AM
In time I would forgive, as much for myself as for my betrayer....But I know myself well enough to know I would never again be able to entrust my love to this person....That part of our relationship would be permanently over....

jordan227's photo
Sun 12/02/12 05:45 AM
I guess we all would forgive but never trust or get back with our partner??

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Sun 12/02/12 06:29 AM


I guess we all would forgive but never trust or get back with our partner??


heck no. people trust and get back with their partners who cheat, often, usually only to regret it.


:thumbsup: I've seen this happen a couple of times...Once in my own family after 23 years of marriage...The reconciliation was short lived...Cheating with your partners friend is the WORST case scenario...The emotional fallout is astronomical...

jordan227's photo
Sun 12/02/12 06:41 AM
I don't know why some people would forgive and continue in that relationship??

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Sun 12/02/12 07:03 AM

I don't know why some people would forgive and continue in that relationship??


Children, finances, love, history......There are many, many reasons people continue to "try"...Cheating does not necessarily kill love Jordan and history is permanent....

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Sun 12/02/12 07:10 AM
Two relationship deal breakers for me: Cheating, and being a Twilight fan(this is the most unforgivable)

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Sun 12/02/12 07:18 AM

Two relationship deal breakers for me: Cheating, and being a Twilight fan(this is the most unforgivable)


Easy to understand both....laugh

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Sun 12/02/12 08:01 AM

Would you forgive your partner for cheating on you with one of your friends??? Honest answers???


were that to happen, no. I would not consider either as friends in that case. I assume we're talking about intimacy when one is in a committed relationship?

I think I could forgive (I have forgiven) a one time brief slip up - it would depend on the circumstances - but not something with a close friend

Toodygirl5's photo
Sun 12/02/12 04:16 PM
Yes, I would forgive but then move on. He is not faithful and that friend is not a true friend.

notsoincognito's photo
Sun 12/02/12 05:08 PM
Nice friend sad2 ... omg t@ would be a horrible scenario 2 go through. A true friend would not even comtemplate doing such a thing... oh yeah, ditch the bf/gf & find someone with morals.

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Sun 12/02/12 05:27 PM

In time I would forgive, as much for myself as for my betrayer....But I know myself well enough to know I would never again be able to entrust my love to this person....That part of our relationship would be permanently over....
I'm on board with this. I had it happen to me years ago and I'm glad I handled it that way.

Syncope's photo
Sun 12/02/12 06:08 PM
Nope, neither forgive nor forget the partner, forgive the friend but never forget.

Chances are if they will cheat on you with a friend, they have an will cheat on you with strangers.

As long as your friend is upfront and honest about it all and wants to be forgiven sure.

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Sun 12/02/12 06:49 PM


Nope, neither forgive nor forget the partner, forgive the friend but never forget.

Chances are if they will cheat on you with a friend, they have an will cheat on you with strangers.

As long as your friend is upfront and honest about it all and wants to be forgiven sure.


just curious...why would you forgive the friend but not the partner?


because the friend is a man?slaphead defo no friend in any case

Syncope's photo
Sun 12/02/12 07:17 PM
Its a greater betrayal from a partner than a friend.

Im not saying you high five the guy, but i could at least forgive them for it.

Partner, nope never, its their duty not to break your trust, not the person they're sleeping with.

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Sun 12/02/12 08:55 PM
Oh...never could I forgive a betrayal like that. I don't think I could even look at that person ever again.

It's always different depending in how much..."IN LOVE"...we are with that person...if we would forgive them or not.

I have been blinded by "love" before, were I think I could forgive anything....just to stay with that person.

When they come back with apologies, and they try to change, and show you that it was a mistake, that it will never happen again, and so on, and so on.

You blindly then think, "Oh they really do love me, they are truly sorry".

But....you have to wake up....in the end....

Sorry, if they respected you, and loved you at all...they would have never done that to begin with.

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Mon 12/03/12 09:43 AM
I would forgive him, but would never trust him.
Our relationship would be over, although I could still be friends, that as far as it would go.
No relationship can work if you dont trust each other.