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You might consider it to be old fashioned, but there is an advantage to waiting until marriage to have sex. I agree with the "WAITING" part.. just not til marriage..  some don't WANT to re-marry.. and that's okay.. but waiting awhile longer is a better way to go in my opinion 
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You might consider it to be old fashioned, but there is an advantage to waiting until marriage to have sex. I agree with the "WAITING" part.. just not til marriage.. some don't WANT to re-marry.. and that's okay.. but waiting awhile longer is a better way to go in my opinion
I said that there was an advantage, not that everyone should do it. |
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You might consider it to be old fashioned, but there is an advantage to waiting until marriage to have sex. I agree with the "WAITING" part.. just not til marriage.. some don't WANT to re-marry.. and that's okay.. but waiting awhile longer is a better way to go in my opinion
I said that there was an advantage, not that everyone should do it. Sorry, I wasn't disagreeing with you. I agree with both of you. Since I won't be getting married again and at my age it would be a little ridiculous, I won't be waiting for marriage. But, I actually hope (and teach) my daughters to do so. |
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I won't be getting married again and at my age it would be a little ridiculous.
What do you mean "at my age"? You are younger than me and a good catch, too. Anyway, I hope that 19Kate79 reads what I posted about the topic of rebound. I think that it could help her. |
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You might consider it to be old fashioned, but there is an advantage to waiting until marriage to have sex. I agree with the "WAITING" part.. just not til marriage.. some don't WANT to re-marry.. and that's okay.. but waiting awhile longer is a better way to go in my opinion
I said that there was an advantage, not that everyone should do it. that IS true.. in some cases I agree.. personally I prefer to test drive a car before I buy it though.. but that's just moi  
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Thanks for saying that. Yes, looking back over a few things, he really didn't respect me. And it's his loss. I believe I am a fine, upstanding woman who takes care of herself, has a steady job, own my own home and car, two responsible adult children, little baggage I think. I caught him in a few lies, like how long he had been divorced, etc., and oh, now he changed his profile to say he has a kid, which he said he didn't. And he aged himself a couple years. What's that about. It's almost like he's some type of a sociopath playing with women's hearts. And as a matter of fact, I did go to the clinic for STD testing. Still waiting for results. The HIV came back negative right away, stillwaiting for syphylis and chlamydia results. I was a fool. Yes, all the message boards out there and even a few of my girlfriends say the have given it up on the second or third date before. And I think part of my problem is I don't like being alone, I've never lived alone in my life until the end of my marriage. I am getting used to it, and maybe some day I will enjoy the single life. Thanks for your blunt response, I needed that! Well Hang in there and if you need some fellowship and cheerleading to get your feet under you you are welcome to email. Getting through stuff as a single person is do-able and sometimes even fun. Probably pays to develope a wide circle of pals and mentors of varrying ages. Nobody is good at everything. Believe me I have my go to people on a lot of stuff. Nobody makes my decisions for me but if you have developed some good real life friends to talk to and give you perspective it is a lot easier to spot the wolves in sheeps clothing. One of my better local gal pal friends is a person I initially saw on Mingle. A couple more from POF. If you are out of the Single arena it is like any other network and you will be up to speed fast. |
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When you are newly single, what is perhaps the most difficult thing to adjust to is the lack of physical affection. That, I believe, is what causes the rebound that I wrote about earlier. I experienced that difficulty when I divorced my ex-wife and when my last wife died.
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Edited by
jacktrades
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Tue 11/27/12 09:00 PM
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I can tell your hurt Kate. Hang in there, when your serious and the other person is not it hurts and makes you feel like a fool. Step back take a deep breath and learn from the mistakes. There are people out there that are looking for real love. You will find him, Good luck.
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It could be because the milk is always free, but cheer up from what i can see even from this website women are now saying why take the whole pig for an 8 ounce sausage. 
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