Topic: solo adventure- happy single before happy relationship.
eagleowls's photo
Thu 11/08/12 08:32 AM
hello all.
i was wondering peoples' views on the importance of being happy with yourself and all aspects before going into a relationship.
I personally feel that relationships are often over rated and that many people feel being alone so are with a different person each week while they try and find themselves.
any thoughts?

michael

pennyg281's photo
Thu 11/08/12 09:22 AM
Hi Michale Welcome to mingle.flowerforyou

I feel it's very important to be happy with yourself before going into a relationship. The way you view yourself effects every aspect of your life and could eventually cause the break up of a relationship. If your happy with who you are and make the most of being single. Then when the possibility of a relationship presents its self your ready.

no photo
Thu 11/08/12 10:11 AM
Ummmmm, I don't really like to get involved with anyone unless I get know them first. Never felt like being with different people each week. I have morals. Yes I'm comfortable not being in a relationship.

Gossipmpm's photo
Thu 11/08/12 10:28 AM
ya gotta b happy with ypu.

before you can ever.

be haooy with someone else:heart:

Jtevans's photo
Thu 11/08/12 10:32 AM
just watch porn.it saves alot of drama smokin

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Fri 11/09/12 09:59 AM

If you're not happy with yourself then you are bringing undue baggage to a potential relationship. It is hard enough to build a solid relationship without the psychotic baggage. Physician heal thyself, then reach out to others.
I am pleased to be me and treasure my friends who agree.

SimplicityAtItsBest's photo
Fri 11/09/12 11:57 AM
Sometimes people look for happiness by getting into relationships.
...The 'I'll find someone to make me happy' mentality.