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Topic: "Needy" and "hungry!"
Bravalady's photo
Wed 11/07/12 02:40 PM

Lonely isn t something we should ever grow comfortable with everyone need a connection a touch . the feeling of anticipation.Looking forward to a someone special .I think it gets harder as we go though life to find one person who can fill all our world .Sometimes we need to look outside the box .Cause life too short to wait for that perfect to find us .


Unfortunately, I don't think the "should" word comes into play much as to whether or not people become comfortable with loneliness. First of all, I think very few people do. Secondly, those who do, I think most of the time it's not a conscious decision. And my guess is that even of those who do become comfortable with it, a very high percentage would be delighted to have it go away.

The rest of your post is 100% true, IMO.

GreenEyes48's photo
Thu 11/08/12 01:24 PM

After having a lenghthy conversation with my 40 year old daughter....I have come to the conclusion.....that I am desperate...to meet a partner....and this is why....I am 58...I was retired at 54....with alot of money...my husband was dx with lung and bone cancer...4 months later....so all money went to his medical and there was no chance travel...2 years after his passing I am ..still retired, kids grown, all that's missing is the travel partner, the man to share with.....so desperate ...in a hurry...YES! I want to enjoy the years I have left....and when I'm ready to sit and rock I want someone hand to hold....what do you all think of me doing my profile like this...

Desperate before I am too old to have fun..to meet a partner who also wants to have fun..


Good luck in your search!

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Fri 11/09/12 10:45 AM

Really good analogy Greeneyes....Really good!...I always buy the wrong thing(s) if I shop when I'm too hungry and/or too needy......Caveat Emptor!:wink:


Not to be too light hearted about it but this is why I don't buy. If I get it for free then it has more emotional value and I loose less if it fails. ;-)

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