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You are definitely a laugh and a 1/2 Torgo
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If you're not talking Star Wars weddings on the first email, you're moving too slow. Weddings??? Get your mind out of the gutter! 
Don't be dissin' my Star Wars wedding! So sorry, Dear. Didn't mean to diss ya. You know, poodle there would make a great ring-bearer for your wedding 
Wouldn't that just confuse people...oh wait they'll just think he's something Disney added.
He's too scary for Disney 
He's just misunderstood. |
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You are definitely a laugh and a 1/2 Torgo Thanks 
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Edited by
Toodygirl5
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Thu 11/01/12 04:21 PM
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So you see someone that peaks your interest (you see there profile pics and read about them) and so you send that first contact email. He/she responds. And thus begins a convo via email. Now, how quickly do you move along to texting, or phone calls? And then how fast do you move along to that first meeting? I know things such as distance and work schedules can influence how quickly things progress. But in general, how fast do you move it along? And, when is it "too fast"? It takes about 2 weeks to move to the phone, after several emails. Then depends on how the phone conversations go as to whether we meet in person. If all goes well, 2 months if he lives with 2-5 hours away. If he lives far away like Carolina's or New Mexico, it may take 8 months. I am speaking from my own experiences. I look for certain qualities for a LTR only not just dating. |
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So you see someone that peaks your interest (you see there profile pics and read about them) and so you send that first contact email. He/she responds. And thus begins a convo via email. Now, how quickly do you move along to texting, or phone calls? And then how fast do you move along to that first meeting? I know things such as distance and work schedules can influence how quickly things progress. But in general, how fast do you move it along? And, when is it "too fast"? I'm thinking if you need to ask the question, one or both of you must not communicating very well..... Oh this question is not for me. I simply ask my Magic 8-Ball and then proceed once it answers.
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Edited by
amaria90
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Fri 11/02/12 03:32 AM
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So you see someone that peaks your interest (you see there profile pics and read about them) and so you send that first contact email. He/she responds. And thus begins a convo via email. Now, how quickly do you move along to texting, or phone calls? And then how fast do you move along to that first meeting? I know things such as distance and work schedules can influence how quickly things progress. But in general, how fast do you move it along? And, when is it "too fast"? I'm thinking if you need to ask the question, one or both of you must not communicating very well..... Oh this question is not for me. I simply ask my Magic 8-Ball and then proceed once it answers.
Texting and phone calls equal the same as giving out your real email address or your social networking pages and that’s given on a case by case basis?
Now once you’ve given that info out you then it’s pretty fast from there to a first meeting, but that also means we’re going out to meet. I won’t bring him to my house unless he’s from out of town and flew or drove in just to meet me. To me: too fast is if I just got a call from you today and you want to see me the next day and you’re calling me all day and all night. Also talking about you’re in love with me after only meeting me once or twice, then saying you want me to move in with you too soon. That seems too needy to me… |
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So you see someone that peaks your interest (you see there profile pics and read about them) and so you send that first contact email. He/she responds. And thus begins a convo via email. Now, how quickly do you move along to texting, or phone calls? And then how fast do you move along to that first meeting? I know things such as distance and work schedules can influence how quickly things progress. But in general, how fast do you move it along? And, when is it "too fast"? I'm thinking if you need to ask the question, one or both of you must not communicating very well..... Oh this question is not for me. I simply ask my Magic 8-Ball and then proceed once it answers.
Ah Ha!...that explains why you are still single...
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I'm supposed to be meeting people???
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So you see someone that peaks your interest (you see there profile pics and read about them) and so you send that first contact email. He/she responds. And thus begins a convo via email. Now, how quickly do you move along to texting, or phone calls? And then how fast do you move along to that first meeting? I know things such as distance and work schedules can influence how quickly things progress. But in general, how fast do you move it along? And, when is it "too fast"? I'm thinking if you need to ask the question, one or both of you must not communicating very well..... Oh this question is not for me. I simply ask my Magic 8-Ball and then proceed once it answers.
Ah Ha!...that explains why you are still single...
Bazinga!! 
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So you see someone that peaks your interest (you see there profile pics and read about them) and so you send that first contact email. He/she responds. And thus begins a convo via email. Now, how quickly do you move along to texting, or phone calls? And then how fast do you move along to that first meeting? I know things such as distance and work schedules can influence how quickly things progress. But in general, how fast do you move it along? And, when is it "too fast"? I'm thinking if you need to ask the question, one or both of you must not communicating very well..... Oh this question is not for me. I simply ask my Magic 8-Ball and then proceed once it answers.
Ah Ha!...that explains why you are still single...
Bazinga!!
 Vulcan mind probe....
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So you see someone that peaks your interest (you see there profile pics and read about them) and so you send that first contact email. He/she responds. And thus begins a convo via email. Now, how quickly do you move along to texting, or phone calls? And then how fast do you move along to that first meeting? I know things such as distance and work schedules can influence how quickly things progress. But in general, how fast do you move it along? And, when is it "too fast"? I'm thinking if you need to ask the question, one or both of you must not communicating very well..... Oh this question is not for me. I simply ask my Magic 8-Ball and then proceed once it answers.
Ah Ha!...that explains why you are still single...
And this brings about the question....Why is it "assumed" that when one asks a question on this site that others think it is in reference to the their own life? I asked it out of curiosity. Hmmmm. Guess ill need to clarify my questions better.
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So you see someone that peaks your interest (you see there profile pics and read about them) and so you send that first contact email. He/she responds. And thus begins a convo via email. Now, how quickly do you move along to texting, or phone calls? And then how fast do you move along to that first meeting? I know things such as distance and work schedules can influence how quickly things progress. But in general, how fast do you move it along? And, when is it "too fast"? For me, it's when the email/IM chat flows fairly fluidly and I know that we would have something to talk about if we were to meet. I’m wary of someone that gives me his number with the first email exchange, I tend to back away a bit when someone does that. |
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So you see someone that peaks your interest (you see there profile pics and read about them) and so you send that first contact email. He/she responds. And thus begins a convo via email. Now, how quickly do you move along to texting, or phone calls? And then how fast do you move along to that first meeting? I know things such as distance and work schedules can influence how quickly things progress. But in general, how fast do you move it along? And, when is it "too fast"? I'm thinking if you need to ask the question, one or both of you must not communicating very well..... Oh this question is not for me. I simply ask my Magic 8-Ball and then proceed once it answers.
Ah Ha!...that explains why you are still single...
And this brings about the question....Why is it "assumed" that when one asks a question on this site that others think it is in reference to the their own life? I asked it out of curiosity. Hmmmm. Guess ill need to clarify my questions better.
Yes, definitely clarify if it's going to mess with you head when people are not willing or able to read your mind....I assume this question was in reference to your own life...Ooops, wait a minute!.... Maybe you're just asking out of curiosity....
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So you see someone that peaks your interest (you see there profile pics and read about them) and so you send that first contact email. He/she responds. And thus begins a convo via email. Now, how quickly do you move along to texting, or phone calls? And then how fast do you move along to that first meeting? I know things such as distance and work schedules can influence how quickly things progress. But in general, how fast do you move it along? And, when is it "too fast"? I'm thinking if you need to ask the question, one or both of you must not communicating very well..... Oh this question is not for me. I simply ask my Magic 8-Ball and then proceed once it answers.
Ah Ha!...that explains why you are still single...
And this brings about the question....Why is it "assumed" that when one asks a question on this site that others think it is in reference to the their own life? I asked it out of curiosity. Hmmmm. Guess ill need to clarify my questions better.
Yes, definitely clarify if it's going to mess with you head when people are not willing or able to read your mind....I assume this question was in reference to your own life...Ooops, wait a minute!.... Maybe you're just asking out of curiosity....
I thought women were mind readers.
Back on topic. I agree with ya 42. Chick gives me her number that quickly, then I'm checking out the Most Wanted list.
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What about when someone sends you a message and you've never spoke to them before
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What about when someone sends you a message and you've never spoke to them before Depends on the context of the message. If it's the "Hey babe. Wat r u up 2 2day" variety then I swoon.
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What about when someone sends you a message and you've never spoke to them before If they quote any lines from sci-fi movies from the 80s or know who Michael Biehn is, I'm in. |
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If you're not talking Star Wars weddings on the first email, you're moving too slow. Weddings??? Get your mind out of the gutter!
And you only wanted to be friends! Sometimes slow is good. So slow that you're not going anywhere... ....Even better!
Hahaha. |
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I'm supposed to be meeting people???
Better start upping your game buddy! |
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well 4 me it all depends:
how interested I really am How the texts are going It all depends 
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