Leaving without a reason, I don't think so. Her hearth was on those stars too. Maybe you should ask yourself what was it you failed to do to maintain your relationship. Times have changed! Its no longer till death do us apart.

I refuse to be in a relationship and be miserable for 50 years. I have made the similar mistake and gotten comfortable in relationships. I quickly learned If she's unhappy, she will let me know and its not called complaining its called self respect.

So if she's is unhappy, she will want to search for new horizons. Life is an adventure and there are so many hours in ones life. Why let it go to waste. Its easy to be a victim, just don't respect yourself.

What your saying is if you don't brush your teeth and they fall out. You don't know why. I am almost certain the signs were there.

There is time we need to look inward and love oneself. This is the time there are nice things you have experienced with this girl. Cherish them and carry them forward, and change the things you need to. This is life everyone goes through the same challenges. its how we handle them that determines the outcome.....or maybe I am wrong.

i think both sexs can be as cruel as eachother here but when you look at it you can either wither die give up, therefore they win or stand up move on and live, therefore you win.
they may take part of your heart with them but hey it will mend and in the end there is one thing they cant take ur will to live and your inner self let it hurt its ok to hurt but just dont let it eat you alive and ruin you.

And some of you ladies do it better than other ladies do. Just saying.

All I can really say is...don't kill yourself emotionally when she is out enjoying herself without worrying about what pain she has caused you.
Yes..it hurts. Don't focus on it. Move on and remember ..not all women will do this to you.

NOt to be the pessimistic weasel here but we are all players. And it is a game. Just some games last longer than others. My first lasted 22 years, this one has lasted 15, my parents' lasted 45, my friend's lasted 6 months. The length of the game is determined by the truth used to set the rules.

You only get out of a relationship what you put in. If you put your head up in the stars rather than feet firmly planted on the ground working on your relationship it may have something to do about how you treated your relationship. Instead of being a crybaby about it now look back, and learn; rather than repeat the misery. Good Luck.

She catigorically said you ve done nothing wron babe i just want to be alone and that was it.anyway thanks

That is typical "I really don't want to bother telling you how you were a pain in the arse I just want this over" speech. Sorry.

Ah yes, I forgot about that speech.
She wanted a clean break from ya without having to go through the emotional break-up thing (crying, pleading, yelling, etc, etc.,)

Sometimes it's almost impossible to get my faithful pup do give me kisses, but wait till 3am when she wants to kiss daddy faceless, then there's no stopping and I always end up rolling around with her.

love is the pain that hurts so good

move on.. Heart breaks are normal and you will encounter more till u get married.