why is everyone lately so eager to get married???


the specis is scrambling for survival and we use the constructs of our societies to write the scripts...which script do you want to STAR in???

which EPIC MYTH do you want the role for???

who's directing? and are you sure you have the final edits??? lol


find the loves of your life and LOVE THEM

have your children and raise them with NO SCRIPT....
but just a daily face to face contact with reality , with humanity and teach them the values you hold dear.

i have never married
i have 3 fathers for each of my 3 children
i have 3 lifelong friends that i have loved intimately and have loved me
unconditionally

we interact, we raise our children together
we live seperately and always have
they have wives and families as well...(those women wanted paper)
we have not defined the love we share
we have not lost respect
i have never accepted child support or alimony
when the children are with them they pay
if someone needs something one of us handles it
we have commitment not competition

this is not for everyone...i understand this.

but i find it a shame that so many fall into the trap that is so obviously set in front of them...

it's incredible how much propaganda and marketing and manipulation go into the whole WEDDING CEREMONY /BRIDE/ CONSUMERMADNESS for one day...it's bizarre. and to me is a disgusting exploitation and one of the poisons of society.

you are SO CONDITIONED TO BLINDLY FOLLOW THE SCRIPT!!!!

and what baffels me , is that even with all the evidence to support times , and cultural change..people still cling tightly to the stone that is sinking them!!!!


invent your own life!!

marry in heart...for however long that lasts...a change of heart is human
and no one should be bound by vows that are unrealistic and impossible to keep,

my daughter has been with her partner for 10 years....they wanted to make a commitment and share that with the ones they love..

i told my girl i would have nothing to do with it unless she wrote the ceremony without promises. no vows . no set ups.

she asked me to make the dress!!! ME!!?? the anti-bride/anti-disney/ anti/feed into the machine... oh oh oh ....


3 months later ...arthritic and hunched from working over the whole living room floor on a dress from her fantasy.... i was cursing ...lol


there i was making a dress for something i had rebelled against and 'thought' i had bred ,OUT of my children!!!

but they did learn devotion, and they did learn commitment...my commitment to another way of thinking and pulling it off, the devotion i have had to this endeavour to prove that we don't have to follow like sheep and we can raise healthy and balanced and moral individuals and not always disfunctional because of unconventional upbringings..

my conviction to human rights and my life work and vocation....

we have no need to hold so tightly to these antiquated structures and traditions

we can stretch and embrace and take the concepts to different lengths

my children never felt abandoned, because from the get go, my intention was to fray the edges and to give them humanity as one family
i did not want a conventional relationship and so there was never a divorce or a break up...my lovers and their fathers were well aware and shared my endeavour as well as finally establishing conventional families for their wive's sakes.

i moved all over the world with my children so that they could be near their fathers...and many fathers and many mothers and many many many sisters and brothers....

sigh....do whatever ..... but imagine......use your imagination!!

what a woman! anarchist! rebel! lover! and just a little devil in there too...

ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhh we still love youuuuuuuuuuuuuuuu!!!! How nice of you to make her dress even if you don't believe in it!!!!

There is a heart in there somewhere!!!

9 days before my 23rd birthday

Don't know if i'll do it again

?????? what are you talking about romeo???

The age i got married

ok I am perving your profile yet again.......lol.........I didnt think you were ever married!!!!

ohhhhhhhhhhhh you "conveniently" deleted that lil tid bit!!!! Ok tell me the story.......

lol

Yes i was for 9 yrs 7 months

Life's great now

lol ... Nope it's all there

So...........you just show your cute face all over the net........to tease us!!!!

I think I just killed romeo!!!!

LOl ... I'm still here

Tease?

Nope

I'm here To chill with my buddies

ummmmmmmmmm Im sorry......... that face does NOT belong with your buddies!!!!

Unless you are trying to tell us something..........and there is nothing wrong with that...

I thought i told you

The story

jumps up and down!!!!!

i'm a buddie!! i'm a buddie!!!!

Noooooooooooo....you forgot to mention the story

Yes you are Alex

I did mention it to you

Like 2 days ago ...

Awww I was 21 when I got married lasted 11 yrs one and only time as of to date. Not on a goal to get married again if it happens it does but not something that I require.

But now my kids are 22 & 24 and have always told them to have fun while they are young and to enjoy life. I think that most are better off getting married and having kids in the later 20's but hey that's just my opinion.