Why is it so hard for me to trust any guy!!!! I dont understand why am so scared....What should I do?

i knoww how u feel its hard for me to trust wonman all i get is hurt and a broke heart in life

Well one being your Divorced. Could be the jerk or none jerk you left, not sure the whole story there but if the dude cheated on you then maybe that is why your so scared to let love in because your scared that another will do the same.

Need I say not all men are like that or however the last guy you had in your life did you etc.

But I have a tough time trusting any and everybody that's just me though, must be another reason I don't or have never been in a relationship.

I guess I should go write a book or something damn.

2 shots of spring water and call me in the moring

i'm kind of the same way and most guys are douche bags anyway. it just takes patience to find that right person. then you will begin to trust that someone when you do find him.

I know for me it is because the way I was treated in the past. Even though not all guys are like that, a lot of them are. When you find the one you'll trust again. Good Luck.

thank for the support.....their was Domestic Violence ?

coming from the standpoint of your situation you have to take a few non-dangerous chances . your trust has been broken but staying in the shadows will never rebuild it. you are an exceptionally attractive woman -therefore you will most likely be approached by several guys, knowing who you are and having been through a divorce I'm sure you'll see the signs of whether he's legitmate.

It's hard to trust anyone these days.

It seems like everyone has their own
agenda, which isn't yours.

But don't lose hope,
I still believe kindred
souls can find each other,
even in this messed-up world.

Gotta remember no one is perfect......take a look inside....dig a little deeper.... Acceptance is the answer......

thank you (((babydall1)))) and everybody that post somee words for me you all made my night....