What is more important?

In a relationship, they're both equally important.

I think LOVE comes 1st. If you dont have love then you wont have friends. U see them,u love them n thats how friendship starts

Isn't that a bit backwards?????

There's on thick line seperating love and friendship. They always intermingle..

I THINK friends first, learning things about a person like boundries, likes, diss likes, what makes them happy what common grounds you both have, spending time together are all part of building a friendship, then sumtimes you fall in love with that person based on ALL qualities they posses. Nd sumtimes you realize your better off as friends. Most of the time we find that we dont even like a person as a good friend. But i usually do a three date rule before deciding if i want friends or no more contact. Sum times dates can be weird or off set by many things. I give benifit of doubt just in case it was a bad day for what ever reason. Unless they cross my three major boundry rules. Then i know when to get the hell out of there...... lmao! But i dont reveal my 3 first date boundries ever! It eigther is or it isnt. Cant change a person only find the one that fits like a glove. Anyway------ thats my interpritation, everyone is different and believes in their own dreams, and we are all looking for our ideal match as long as we know that no one person is "PERFECT" and are willing to see things through and be understanding to one another i think there will be sumone for each of us. The internet has changed the dating world as i knew it to be as a younger girl, and that is what i believe we all are hiding behind. So stuborn to bend a bit, looking for sum one better and better than the last one. Forgetting about what the heart wants. :D Melissa

To me; friendship is way more important than love. Friendships can last forever; love doesn't.

A friendship can stand alone but LOVE can not exist without friendship.

The best man or woman to marry is the one you were friend with.

get a friendship going and you will soon discover qualities that make love come.

Perfectly said.

Friendship...Love doesn't seem to work out so well for me.

Love is not of one kind, there is the love we have for our partner, the love we have for our children, the love we have for our parents, the love we have for our friends, the love we have for our pets, and many more. There is a difference between the love we have for our partner, and the love we have for our friends, and the love we have for our partner must be the most important to us in my opinion.

Everyonen is entitled to their opinion.. if one says friends 1st.. then we know where that person stands.. when another says love is first.. then we know where they stand.. and a question about that.. Love at first site? or I am in love with my best friend? Hmm everyone experiences differently yes?

To make a long one somewhat short.. I will take what comes my way and I hope someday I find it one way or another. Have a great day all!