I am not perfect (I no I am not the best looking guy) but seriously why is it so hard to find a real relationship with a guy?

I sometime Just get the feeling guys are only interested in one thing (sex) seriously am I just living in a dream world? to want to have an actual Boyfriend to actually get close to him, make sure he nos how I feel about him
even to see a future with him

and where do I find this guy? all clubs seem to be full of who can (shag) who. please someone tell me you been in a gay relationship that working out.

sorry for moaning all :(

I am not sure being gay has much to do
with attaining a great relationship.

I always think one can use the 'down' time
to work on themselves, be who you want
to be, this is very attractive to others.

Being self-satisfied is an obvious quality
that draws others to you.

Being the right person is better than seeking
the right person, is my point of view.

Nothing else to offer, but best of luck to you :-)

Moaning usually helps. Not in attaining a a goal, but to relieve the anxiety and the inner anguish.

I also used to write poetry. And short stories. Not about love or the loss of it, or the unavailability of it, but about everything, including the loss of available love, when it was apropos.

I used to go to spanking sessions in the seventies, and those were well-attended by older women in their fifties. I was at most 24 at the time, and I still bemoan those days. Ah... Those pasty-white hairless big ... round... pieces of Emmenthal cheeze, or maybe those Moons over Bourbon street... and the drinks, and the horse deauvers... and the bar girls who were too young to serve alcohol, but the perv who ran the event got them to pay him for the privilege.

I tell you we forgot how to make life happen.

And I have a strong suspicion that it's G.W. Bush's fault. He deposits his evil slime in every soup of fun that he is allowed to come near to.

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I think my post here is much better than that wench's with the long hair, who spewed some unoriginal platitudes in the tired hope of trying to get you out of the slump and away from the poison or the loaded gun.

She used to be much happier and beat-up, a real liver, but now she is too happy to care to look or appear happy to others, so now she's just going through the motions. (I hope you don't mind I spilled the beans on you, Sou... if you feel it appropriate, please delete my message here, it's not doing much here anyway, so I won't mind at all if you do. In fact, I ask you to please delete my message.)

You just have not found the person for you. Why settle for something that isn't all you want. Enjoy life and one day your dream man will come along.

You're right, as usual. It's better to starve to death when there is cake all 'round you, and what you truly want to have is bread.

You got the same problem as everyone else dude.

It don't matter what you hump.

You be the best soul you can be....that is all you can do.

Your lover will appreciate you.....or you should find another lover.