Hello, this is the first time using this site. I'm a girl looking for another girl. When I search in here is seems like every profile I come across says, "last seen over a month ago." What's up with that?

Hello; Welcome to the site. Best of luck in who you are searching for.

Yup...same here....very new venturing into these sorts of sites..just looking for dating....nothing serious...and wanting to see what all this dating site stuff was all about. As a genuine hater of small talk...I am finding it challenging finding a real conversation.(Although I haven't quite figured out where to look...and I'm somewhat of a clutz and keep hitting wrong buttons and ending up on other sites!

I'm pretty much of the philosophy that until I meet someone on here in person...I must assume that they are a con artist...and probably 30 years younger than me...or from outer space...doing research on us humans! Eek!

If you figure out how all this works...let me know!

Happy mingling!:-)

Yup...same here....very new venturing into these sorts of sites..just looking for dating....nothing serious...and wanting to see what all this dating site stuff was all about. As a genuine hater of small talk...I am finding it challenging finding a real conversation.(Although I haven't quite figured out where to look...and I'm somewhat of a clutz and keep hitting wrong buttons and ending up on other sites!

I'm pretty much of the philosophy that until I meet someone on here in person...I must assume that they are a con artist...and probably 30 years younger than me...or from outer space...doing research on us humans! Eek!

If you figure out how all this works...let me know!

Happy mingling!:-)