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Topic: Nudge or mail?
Duttoneer Joined Sun 07/01/12 Posts: 4745	Fri 09/21/12 01:33 AM
Which is the best way in your opinion to make an initial contact with someone of interest, a nudge or mail, and which do you prefer to receive when someone new contacts you?

singmesweet Joined Mon 07/28/08 Posts: 26661	Fri 09/21/12 05:02 AM
Email, definitely. I usually ignore most nudges from strangers.

pyxxie13 Joined Wed 09/28/11 Posts: 3835	Fri 09/21/12 07:52 AM Edited by pyxxie13 on Fri 09/21/12 07:53 AM
I agree with Singme. I ignore the nudges that do not come from people who post on the forums. Emails are alright as long as they contain something worth answering to.

Duttoneer Joined Sun 07/01/12 Posts: 4745	Fri 09/21/12 01:31 PM
Thanks for the replies and I agree with your comments. I prefer to send and receive an email in the first instance, not a nudge, but I do respond to both if I am interested in the sender.

Jtevans Joined Fri 08/10/07 Posts: 30654	Fri 09/21/12 01:32 PM
i prefer to just poke'em in the fart box

singmesweet Joined Mon 07/28/08 Posts: 26661	Sat 09/22/12 10:16 AM
Thanks for the replies and I agree with your comments. I prefer to send and receive an email in the first instance, not a nudge, but I do respond to both if I am interested in the sender. Because so many people don't have much in their profiles, it's hard to see if I'm interested in someone at all just from a nudge. At least with an email, they have the chance to give me a little to go on to chat about.

jaded72 Joined Tue 12/06/11 Posts: 1456	Sat 09/22/12 07:45 PM
Thanks for the replies and I agree with your comments. I prefer to send and receive an email in the first instance, not a nudge, but I do respond to both if I am interested in the sender. Because so many people don't have much in their profiles, it's hard to see if I'm interested in someone at all just from a nudge. At least with an email, they have the chance to give me a little to go on to chat about. I agree completely. If you haven't interacted with them before, it's hard to tell where they're coming from. Messages also take one effort.

Rdglo17 Joined Sat 07/28/12 Posts: 39	Sat 09/22/12 07:50 PM
Thats good to know LOL, I usually start with a wink and see where it goes from there.

blueeyes2000 Joined Thu 11/08/07 Posts: 1517	Sun 09/23/12 06:12 AM
I'd say email. I myself, don't pay attention to the pokes anymore

boonedoggy61 Joined Fri 09/09/11 Posts: 10425	Wed 09/26/12 08:10 AM
It don't make any difference, you ladies don't answer either one....

Dodo_David Joined Fri 08/13/10 Posts: 48928	Wed 09/26/12 07:39 PM
It don't make any difference, you ladies don't answer either one.... That is not true. Plenty of women here have replied to mail that I have sent them.

singmesweet Joined Mon 07/28/08 Posts: 26661	Thu 09/27/12 08:45 AM
It don't make any difference, you ladies don't answer either one.... I answer emails fairly often unless I can't understand what they're saying, or they're being rude.

Adel218 Joined Thu 09/13/12 Posts: 1	Thu 09/27/12 01:09 PM
A good old e-mail wins hands down for me

Cutiepieforyou Joined Wed 10/17/07 Posts: 43085	Thu 09/27/12 01:12 PM
I don't pay attention to nudges. I would rather get an email.

alookat101 Joined Fri 12/12/08 Posts: 17442	Thu 09/27/12 01:27 PM
I'll accept a nudge or e-mail..., its getting so bad I'll even accept a kick. Just kidding...., Good Luck with your search.

boonedoggy61 Joined Fri 09/09/11 Posts: 10425	Fri 09/28/12 09:13 AM
I'll accept a nudge or e-mail..., its getting so bad I'll even accept a kick. Just kidding...., Good Luck with your search. Let me help ya with that........................( KICK ) hope ya feel better!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

alookat101 Joined Fri 12/12/08 Posts: 17442	Fri 09/28/12 10:42 AM
ooch ...,lol

FearandLoathing Joined Fri 12/28/07 Posts: 30121	Fri 09/28/12 12:18 PM
I don't get either of 'em...I'm indifferent.

SDSCFof2 Joined Sun 10/02/11 Posts: 21324	Fri 09/28/12 08:25 PM
mail

eileena9 Joined Fri 04/13/07 Posts: 28211	Fri 09/28/12 08:30 PM
I ignore nudges that come from strangers....unless we had one that says "Who the heck ARE you???" (That one would be used quite often) And emails that ask me what kind of man I am looking for, just shows me how little you actually looked at on my profile....or if you even did.