To: Abracadabra,

I agree "Friends" first, but your right it doesn't seem to fly anymore in todays world?????

For you that are being negative.Try being alittle more positive,it can happen.

Reddragons=Thankyou for your words,and there are plenty more men and women out there that believe the same.Good luck to you too.

((((((( pkh ))))))

Mike wrote:
“I agree "Friends" first, but your right it doesn't seem to fly anymore in todays world?????”

No it doesn’t fly anymore.

I can’t tell you how many women I’ve emailed who never even bothered to reply. They are obviously jumping to conclusions based on who knows what. They haven’t even so much as exchanged a thought, they can’t possibly have a clue of what they are passing by.

Of the few who have responded, they quite often basically send a questionnaire, if they don’t like the answers you never hear from them again. I seriously believe that those women are just out to prove that every man has a flaw, so they just keep asking questions until they find something that isn’t perfectly what they are seeking and that’s it, bye-bye. To be perfectly honest I don’t think I’d really want to meet any woman who are that screwed up anyway so maybe it’s a good thing after all.

Getting a woman from the Internet just to talk on the telephone is a paramount obstacle. Many prefer to IM. I hate to IM. I’ve IMed with women before and they inevitably jump to wrong conclusions based on complete misunderstandings. I’ve had women accuse me of lying and “changing my story” during a conversation on IM. Nothing could be further from the truth. I simply have nothing to lie about. It was purely a misunderstanding on their part because they were jumping to conclusions and don’t even have the courtesy to ask for more details. Instead they just say, “Sorry, that was a lie and hang up”. It’s utterly stupid.

I seriously don’t even want to talk to a woman anymore unless it’s in person where we can actually communicate for real. It’s been my experience that they are just too quick to jump to conclusions over the Internet. They imagine things that have absolutely nothing whatsoever to do with me. It’s crazy.

The other thing too is that the further away the live the more they love you. I think all the women in Europe and far western U. S. and Canada are in love with me. But when they start getting close to where I live, all of a sudden they aren’t interested in talking. I think the Internet is “safe” because of the long distance. If it looks like it’s close enough to actually become real forget it! All bets are off.

Of course this isn’t always true. Like I say, I met 5 women over the Internet in the past 10 years, and those 5 were very realistic, sensible, intelligent women. I just didn’t fall romantically in love with any of them. That’s not something that can be forced, and it certainly shouldn’t be faked. But at least I gave it a shot. I spent a lot of time with all 5 of those women (several months each). I think I’m about due for another encounter. It’s been over a year since the last one.

Sensible women are around, they are just rare. No different than men I guess. Most men that women meet turn out to be jerks. The best kept secret is that that statistic is a two-way street. All women aren’t exactly gifts from god either.

And now I’ll be shot in the head with a cyber sniper bullet for that comment. (ha ha)

Beautiful, we all need a reminder, sometimes.

Well I'm glad you all agree.Now wouldn't be wonderful if it happened to us all.Truat and Believe.

BUT,,,,,,,IT WILL!!!!!!!!


Some day? Some place? Sometime? Someone will come up to you and say, I LOVE YOU!!!! It is written!!!!! lol

Well said Abracadabra. I am backing you up 100% and not busting out the sniper rifle.

I have the 3% to 5% rule. You give me a 100 and only about 3 to 5 are eligible for me. I think the internet decreases those odds and puts a different perspective on things.

All of my serious relationship have been a process of searching and weeding out. Females do the same thing to me; I am sure that I have been weeded out. I have met girls online, but nothing serious has ever come from it.

I have broken hearts and have had mine broken. A broken heart needs some time to heal. I ALWAYS learn from my past relationship; it helps speed the process and adds to personal growth.

Every subsequent relationship I love like I have never been hurt.

Terry, I do believe that

Ilikeflipflops,I do believe that too now,took me awile but now I do.

Maybe I'm just a dreamer,but I would like to believe it will happen again.I don't want to live in past hurts,did that for too long.I want to keep moving forward.