1-800-bobbit, they can help.

I have decided to get out the bull dozer.
I'm gonna build my own active volcano.....
So......
I will be accepting applications for virgins....
in early.....2014

Sacrificing attitude a.....must.
Wannabe's need NOT apply!!!

The issue is that I am not a great speller. So when I stated in my profile that I was eunuch, I don't think my first date understood the error. Boy was she mad.

I remember my first "attempt". It didn't work.

I remember my first real time. Wow! Was that fun for both of us!

Whenever it happens, make it special.

hahaha
A '67 Ford Mustang..
Still not sure if it was him or 4th gear.

Ha Ha. Mine was a '67 Chevy II!

Again, why care what we think about it? Just do it when you want to. So to speak.

why care what we think about it? Just do it when you want to.......... SAME LIKE U

No, Virginia...
There no such thing
as a lavender-scented dildo.

(You said "sticks" first...)

I love it when you are full of beans like today.
I kid you not, three minutes before I happened
on this thread, I sighed, "why, oh, why does
Souphiehere not post more often?"

The gods listened to my prayers.

"She's real fine my 409
She's real fine my 409
my four... oh... nine."

... or just because they were both virgins.

[It's still something the person has to decide. Whatever they choose is fine. There will always be people who judge that choice, no matter what.


I think where I get confused is why some care so much about what others do - as long it is not impacting them???? (in common speak - get a life - no one likes a busy body as my mom used to say )
^^^quoted

Yea And until we don't have to deal with outers judgement sometimes the misery is not worth those judgements and the heat that rains down with thm.

The reason other people care so much about casual sexual choices is the consequences very rarely fall down only on the two people involved.

An STD, unplanned pregnancy, a misscarriage, a child born with disabilities because the Mother recieves little or no prenatal care, Maternal mortality rates, a child with and unknown or absent parent, the snowball effect of poverty, paternal alliantion and guilt, sometimes dependency on already over stressed family and social sysptems is born up by a wide number of people.

The staggering amount of burden placed on taxpayers for costs is a compelling reason for the general population to try and discourage or prevent irresponsible sex.

If a Grandmother was an out of wed lock teen her daughter's chance doubles and her grand daughter's chance waivers around 600-800%. This literally means a woman probably without an highschool diploma will have the burden of at least two maybe three generations of children to try to cope with before she can even collect poverty level social security benifits so all three maybe four generations are unlikely to be able to afford houseing, transportation, medical care, or even viable food assistance. The chance of multiple births in succeeding generations and incarcerations expands exponetially. The pure misery of that to each generation of children alone seems worth trying to maintain some kind of voice to say it really is EVERYBODIES bussiness to speak up and say what may not be indulgent and popular because somewher the burden of that falls on the backs of the ones who have been responsible.

Promoteing virginity until relationships that can support and have a greater chance at preventing such hardships benifits everyone. Especially since available birth control has pretty much proven to only be marginally effective. Especially when you are talking about younger, immature, or headonistic partners.

I've never revealed to anyone about whether I'm a virgin or not. Only my close family and friends. Obviously. I like my private matters to remain private. Some things should be kept sacred. Apparantely a body is just a thing to get used. I think not.

Virginity doesn't have the value now that it had just ten yrs ago. Certainly not what it had just 30 yrs ago. It seems to me that nobody really cares. I mean, Look at the young girls now popping out their first kid at 13 or 14. It's no big deal to them. They know that mom & dad will help take care of it. They seem to not feel bad about it. It doesn't seem to bother them that they have four or five boyfriends by 16. And at least two kids by two different boys.


They know mom & dad will raise the child so she doesn't have to miss a beat in school. She can maybe a year or so later pop out another one by boyfriend # three that she thought she loved. It's OK. They seem to think "It's alright, I will still get to go to collage. If not, Hey, Still no big deal. I will get on public assistance.

It seems to me it's all made to easy for them now. In the long run they don't have to give up anything. A lot of them are dumb as a box of rocks. Not to many yrs ago men in general wouldn't date a girl/woman if she was very young with kids. Most times men don't want a ready made family. But now, These young boys, The way they see it, Easy mark. If you will pop out kids that early and no dad in site, "I'll get me some and do the same thing. I'll get it and I'll be gone.

Now, Virginity means nothing to young girls or boys. For the most part, No responsibility. Not to many yrs ago most young boys and girls held on to their virginity till they got married. It was the smart thing to do. They were taught at a young age that if you got pregnant, Nobody was going to run to the rescue of either. You taught that if you were man/woman enough to make a baby, You were man/woman enough to be responsible.

Boys were taught that if they got some girl pregnant, His dreams of collage or whatever went out the window. He got job and took responsibility for his actions. Same with her. She was taught that if she spread her legs for someone she had no intention of marrying,got pregnant,It was on her and the one who got her pregnant. Mom & dad wasn't going to do it. Also, The gov wasn't going to keep you and your child up.

But now, It's like I have already said. Everything is to easy. It's been made so easy that virginity doesn't matter anymore.