It's almost impossible to meet someone

Aww

They have sites for gays, have you tried there? good luck in your search..

You seem an attractive, well mannered young man, I'm sure you'll meet Mr. Right. I'm unfamiliar with the territories of Canada when it comes to sheer proximity, but have you considered expanding your search from solely B.C.?

Here's to You Finding Your Somebody,

Bryan

It's hard to be gay when you undress in front of a big mirror before you go to bed each night. "Hard." You get it? you are gay, a man's body turns you on. Khm.

So... I've never been gay, and not even happy. What's it like?

I don't think being gay makes it hard to get laid. You see, being straight, you have to deal with babes, and that's a big hurtling block for us breeders. (Unless the babes themselves are big, and hurtling blocks at us. That is, blocks of cement sidewalk.)

No matter how you slice it, it's still baloney. Or sausage. Penis. Whatever.

"Amorous love is nature's joke on man, because it's coupled with lust. Lust is a desire of stand-alone existence, love is not. Here is the great tragedy of life, the source of all personal tragedies." -- A. Hitler.

yes it is hard to be gay but thats the same for all of us no matter where you are people like us are a minioity but we just have to learn to deal with it and wait it out till we find that special someone. It will happen you just have to be patient! Ur also rly cute btw ;)

Why is it difficult?

Why not look into why it's so difficult for you and work on fixing it.

Hey Bud. Don't give up. The up side is that you are still quite young and attractive (dare I say HOT!). The biggest question I would have for you is; Are you out? It is certainly a nerve racking process, coming out, but it is also like advertising yourself.

Start with your friends and family and go from there. Chances are there are a lot of people that you already know that are gay but still in the closet. You may embolden them by coming out yourself.

Another thing to try is get involved. You don't neccessarily have to go to "gay places" like bars and pubs. Just get active in your community. There are usually a number of us into acting. Get involved in theatre and just be really friendly. Be yourself, take an interest in people, have fun.

Whatever you do don't wait until you are thirty to come out of the closet. I realised I was gay when I was seven and pretended to be straight for 28 years. I married, had kids, and then came out. Yikes that messes things up. Be yourself! I love being gay and I wouldn't want to be any other way. It may be difficult to meet guys because they don't mark themselves as gay, but if you mark yourself, it'll be easier for them to find you.

Sounds like pretty good advice!

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You're a cute kid. I'm sure all the boys will be flocking to you if you give it some time, eh.

Cheer up, Buttercup!

reading this makes me want to start a thread, being straight - It's almost impossible to meet someone

Hey you should go ahead and do that! Haha.

But hurry up bc I wanna post a reply!

Either way is a choice, not tough enough to walk the walk??
FIND A DIFFERENT PATH.