I have been here a long time, i almost purchased the Premium thing but you know i have not had any luck at all. Honestly i am extremely unlucky with women, at first i was thinking it must be looks, so i started dieting and pay for a stupid Gym membership to get in shape (Yeah no ****, i really am trying lol).

Then i was thinking am i too shy? Well i noticed since i have been getting healthy i feel a lot better about myself more confidence and i do things i would not normaly do. Women don't really intimidate me anymore, i am chill and not nervous at all i just act 110% normal and confident, i even have been dancing recently and i use to be that shy guy that wanted to slow dance at school dances, now i am out there busting a move and dancing and yet no luck with that despite dancing and talking with women WTF!

I really am starting to go crazy, i don't smell or come off weird, i have tried every personality ploy (nice guy, bad boy etc) and none work even when i am just being myself calm and confident i have no luck with the few women i have talked to.

Now onto the internet, i have honestly sat forever going through the quick match thing and even sending out loads of emails and not but 2-3 replies that end in one message never talking again. I really don't know what to do. I have some sort of stupid cosmic bad luck BS and i guess i am destined to FAIL! I even got as close as was suppose to meet a girl for lunch, we both talked forever before then and she was not even that great looking, a bit on the heavy side but it didn't matter. Anyway she just stopped talking all together even after we left on a good note. I was like WTF!

So yeah my life sucks dick ATM!!!

The best advice for being here on Mingle- get into the forums and start posting, it's the best way for other Minglers to see your personality. Many success stories on here are from people who met through the forums.