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Topic: Favorites
Ladywind7 Joined Sun 04/08/12 Posts: 7833	Mon 08/20/12 03:47 PM
If you add a person or they add you to their favorites, what do you think that means if you have been chatting and getting on well? Friends or interested?

navygirl Joined Sat 06/02/07 Posts: 8118	Mon 08/20/12 03:50 PM
If you add a person or they add you to their favorites, what do you think that means if you have been chatting and getting on well? Friends or interested? It could mean both. For me; it usually just means friends.

soufiehere Joined Sat 10/24/09 Posts: 45397	Mon 08/20/12 03:53 PM
Doesn't really mean anything other than they want a way to keep track of you in case they want to get back to you. It might get someone's attention, as a notification is involved.

Scotti71 Joined Fri 07/13/12 Posts: 173	Mon 08/20/12 03:57 PM
If you add a person or they add you to their favorites, what do you think that means if you have been chatting and getting on well? Friends or interested? Ask them.If they are interested in being more than friends after you have asked them they should tell you.If they only want to be your friend then,so be it.You dont ask-you dont know.

msmyka Joined Sat 03/22/08 Posts: 17079	Mon 08/20/12 03:59 PM
I personally find it kind of creepy that someone can add you as a favorite even if you've never spoken to them before. I would think it means they are interested in some way.

Ladywind7 Joined Sun 04/08/12 Posts: 7833	Mon 08/20/12 04:02 PM
I will. I want opinions first. I like seeing how others think :-P

mightymoe Joined Sun 11/19/06 Posts: 37362	Mon 08/20/12 04:03 PM Edited by mightymoe on Mon 08/20/12 04:03 PM
I personally find it kind of creepy that someone can add you as a favorite even if you've never spoken to them before. I would think it means they are interested in some way. i'be never chatted with anyone that wanted to be friends, they just send a request and i click yes, and it pretty much ends after that...

andrewzooms Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 2842	Mon 08/20/12 04:18 PM
After talking with a woman on here I added her on my favorites. She stopped talking to me.

blueeyes2000 Joined Thu 11/08/07 Posts: 1517	Mon 08/20/12 04:20 PM
I personally find it kind of creepy that someone can add you as a favorite even if you've never spoken to them before. I would think it means they are interested in some way. i'be never chatted with anyone that wanted to be friends, they just send a request and i click yes, and it pretty much ends after that... Same here, or I get a couple of emails,if any at all, and that's it

Scotti71 Joined Fri 07/13/12 Posts: 173	Mon 08/20/12 04:30 PM
I know its never easy to go that one step further because you might be thinking "is this person really into me or are they just really friendly and Im reading more into it than there is?" I think it has to be taken on a case by case basis.Hold on!! Use your womens intuition!!

Ladywind7 Joined Sun 04/08/12 Posts: 7833	Mon 08/20/12 04:51 PM
After talking with a woman on here I added her on my favorites. She stopped talking to me. Honestly, why did you add her to your favorites?

Scotti71 Joined Fri 07/13/12 Posts: 173	Mon 08/20/12 04:57 PM
I would NEVER add anybody to anything without asking them first.People can so get the wrong idea if you dont talk to them about it first.

kc0003 Joined Fri 05/11/07 Posts: 26382	Mon 08/20/12 04:59 PM
I personally find it kind of creepy that someone can add you as a favorite even if you've never spoken to them before. I would think it means they are interested in some way. i'be never chatted with anyone that wanted to be friends, they just send a request and i click yes, and it pretty much ends after that... Same here, or I get a couple of emails,if any at all, and that's it emails? (i've heard of those.)

andrewzooms Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 2842	Mon 08/20/12 05:04 PM
After talking with a woman on here I added her on my favorites. She stopped talking to me. Honestly, why did you add her to your favorites? She was my favorite person on here.

Ladywind7 Joined Sun 04/08/12 Posts: 7833	Mon 08/20/12 05:05 PM
I would NEVER add anybody to anything without asking them first.People can so get the wrong idea if you dont talk to them about it first. Good advice. You must have a great teacher! Anyhow I never said this post was about me Scotti.

blueeyes2000 Joined Thu 11/08/07 Posts: 1517	Mon 08/20/12 05:05 PM
I personally find it kind of creepy that someone can add you as a favorite even if you've never spoken to them before. I would think it means they are interested in some way. i'be never chatted with anyone that wanted to be friends, they just send a request and i click yes, and it pretty much ends after that... Same here, or I get a couple of emails,if any at all, and that's it emails? (i've heard of those.) me too! But I get weird reactions most of the time when I send them, so I quit sending them,lol

oldhippie1952 Joined Mon 03/14/11 Posts: 22693	Mon 08/20/12 05:32 PM
I would have to ask before I added to favorites. It would just be a "holder" for friends I email/chat with all the time.

Scotti71 Joined Fri 07/13/12 Posts: 173	Mon 08/20/12 06:15 PM
I would NEVER add anybody to anything without asking them first.People can so get the wrong idea if you dont talk to them about it first. Good advice. You must have a great teacher! Anyhow I never said this post was about me Scotti. Thats cool,Im sure someone can use it.

singmesweet Joined Mon 07/28/08 Posts: 26661	Mon 08/20/12 06:20 PM
I have favorite people here, but I've never added anyone as a favorite. And the only people who add me are complete strangers who have never talked to me, so I just ignore them.

pyxxie13 Joined Wed 09/28/11 Posts: 3835	Mon 08/20/12 08:01 PM
I really don't understand that concept. Favorites??? really??