i just recently got back on this site...not getting many messages..not a good profile?

Personally I don't know why you aren't getting messages. Your profile is a little skimpy though, got anything other than love living on the beach?

It's short, but not bad. And don't feel bad, I've gotten 3 messages in a year

yea i need more..but i figure if they want to know they ll ask

Ummm, you better ROLL WITH THE TIDE!! I was just in Gulf Shores 2 years ago

You're right, guys are notorious for not reading profiles and will ask you if you live on the beach....

it s true..lol

and yes roll tide!!!

Guys don't read much..true.

Try holding a fish.

lol..yep good advice

Honestly, I don't see why guys are not messaging you, but then again, so far the only people who has messaged me and "wanted to meet me" were trying to get me to either go to their website or get me to send them money because they were stranded in Africa. :/

For a really pretty girl the photos don't do you any favors. Your lead shot looks like you have something set on your head. The arm in the foreground distorts that one. The third shot you look stoned. Men generally are visual creatures so pictures are worth a thousand words. Show yourself doing something more than standing on a blank wall.

The text kind of finishes you off. Guys don't want to be nagged/lectured even if they do want to have a "fun" time so the disqualifyer hurts you. Which kind of seems all you are offering even though you try to contradict that. Why introduce a negative?

If you have something really funny to capture attention you can get along with the lazy "just ask " but if not you probably want to give the people who are trying to select you from a couple hundred other women offerings something to connect with like a few mutual interests and maybe something to start a conversation around. Surely you have positives. You work as a waitress, really hard work that often means you like people think about your reader and think how you would engage them in a conversation? Keep trying.

Welcome back.

i get alot of that too..people from other countries

thanks pacific star

Honestly, I've had matzoh that had more flavor than your profile.
You have made yourself out to be the Internet version of a blind date.

cool..coming from alf...lol..i would add more but im weary about this site..sorry but true..i have alot to offer and my problem is i live on a island..small community...and i dont know what to say about myself..lol..i am modest i guess..but i am honest sweet and sometimes that doesnt get u far.so i dont like cynical people..need not apply..im intelligent..i will change my profile..lol..and i don t put down anyone..even if u are mean..lol

Jenna, there is nothing truly wrong with your profile. It just lacks color, what I mean by that is that there is nothing wrong with your looks, you are quite attractive. Its more the lack of highlights. For example: take a commercial for instance, to sell a product, subliminal messages entice the viewer to either get hungry at a "Olive Garden"commercial because of presentation, inticeing them to come to their restaurant and spend, or a lotto commercial with beautifull woman suggesting what you can have if you played lotto and win. Be a little creative, your looks are fine, that is not an issue. Mine needs some work as well. Finally, remember, you are among many profiles to view, trust me, you will be fine. Good luck.

ok lol..about to sell myself but that sounds horrible..lol..changing my profile..oh snap watch for it..lol

lol, sorry, maybe I presented my point wrong. The principal of presentation is similar at "selling" yourself. But I think you know what I mean.