how do you talk or send or even view a message to someone...

Just click on their image. There will be a send mail box at the botom. To view, go to "My Account" and select mail, then select which message to view. Hope this helps.

HOW DO I IM?
First, you must have YOUR 'Instant Messaging'
turned ON:
http://mingle2.com/user/enable_im
(Or >>My Account>>Settings>>Turn ON IM)

Then you would go to the profile of the person
with whom you wish to chat.

Under their picture there is an orange button
'Instant Message' which you would click on and
the request to Instant Message is sent.

If there is no orange button labeled 'Instant
Message' it could mean one of two things.

The person does NOT have 'Instant Messaging'
turned ON.
(In which case you could email them and request
they turn it ON.)

Or, the person is in 'Stealth Mode.'
http://mingle2.com/user/toggle_stealth_mode


As oldhippie said, beneath a member's picture, on their
profile, you will see 'Email Him/Her', click to send
them an email.


If you have any messages, they will appear here:
http://mingle2.com/inbox/list which you can see when
you are in 'My Account', next to your picture, as 'Mail.'

If you mean you wish to view a message you have sent
them, you can see 'Sent' messages here: http://mingle2.com/inbox/sent
which is also seen in your 'Mail' section
(in your headings.)

They are available for viewing for 30 days.