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Topic: I DONT GET IT!!
CJBFromDa513's photo
Thu 08/02/07 04:28 PM
OK why do a lot of people on this website have fake, or cartoon pictures as there ONLY picture of themselves? i under stand it when u can actually see the person via other pictures. but when it is not even u and its the only pic.. wtf? are u that ashamed of who u are or what u look like? are u that affraid of internet predators? if that is the case why even have a computer? let alone be on a dating website?.. thx for letting me share...

HangedMan's photo
Thu 08/02/07 04:30 PM
you wanna gander, a big boy....come on over......laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh

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Thu 08/02/07 04:31 PM
maybe we just want a little control over who sees us and who doesn't?

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Thu 08/02/07 04:33 PM

Everyone has their own comfort level and approach to online stuff. It's like everything else in life. You figure out who and what works for you and you ignore the rest.

Good luck. Have patience and don't let it get to you! :smile:

creationsfire's photo
Thu 08/02/07 04:34 PM
Maybe I'd rather do it like a cartoon.....than do it with you. Thanks for letting me share.

Hiya, Big Boy, sneaks a peak under the corner of Hanged's profile pic.:tongue:

oldsage's photo
Thu 08/02/07 04:35 PM
What difference does it make? People do what people do. You can accept things or not. Worry about what you can control & let go of what you can't control.

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Thu 08/02/07 04:35 PM

Spoken like a true sage! laugh laugh

lulu24's photo
Thu 08/02/07 04:36 PM
um...maybe they like the cartoons better? maybe they feel that the artwork represents them?

it's not always about security, i know a few that are very self-assured and still prefer the joke-pics.

if it really bothers you, feel free to ask them for a picture.

HangedMan's photo
Thu 08/02/07 04:40 PM
Hi ya Creations.......hey hey now.....you never know what you might see doing that....:wink: :tongue:

CJBFromDa513's photo
Thu 08/02/07 04:41 PM
u guys arent getting it.. it doesnt bother me, i was just trying to ubnderstand why.. and i wasn't talking about profiles like yours hang man and creations u guys have pictures of yourselves.. i was saying when it is the ONLY PIC..

creationsfire's photo
Thu 08/02/07 04:47 PM
Never?brokenheart

creationsfire's photo
Thu 08/02/07 04:47 PM
laugh :wink: laugh

HangedMan's photo
Thu 08/02/07 04:47 PM
Well, to be serious, shouldn't it be more about the person as a whole rather than the window dressing?

Really, if yer a drop dead 10 on the outside, but a completely horrible creature inside is that worth the time and trouble?
Looks will fade...it takes the whole to make a person beautiful...

lulu24's photo
Thu 08/02/07 04:49 PM
um...i need to like the dressing, as well.

otherwise, no sex.

creationsfire's photo
Thu 08/02/07 04:50 PM
I know I know.....I make for a really ugly Simpson....that's it HUH? Ain't it HUH?

It's all good CJ.........just goofing around. Except for my wanting to see whats under the corner of his profile pic, devil

no photo
Thu 08/02/07 04:50 PM

Oh. Your title sounded like a rant or gripe.

I still think everyone's comfort level and approach to online stuff is different, so don't concern yourself with stuff you don't get and just do your own thing.

HangedMan's photo
Thu 08/02/07 04:51 PM
laugh laugh Creationslaugh laugh




creationsfire's photo
Thu 08/02/07 04:52 PM
Oops, I meant Hanged's profile pic, he he he....uuummmmm, Hanged? Is that a discription, and are you made of metal everywhere?laugh devil

HangedMan's photo
Thu 08/02/07 04:52 PM
fine ya need to like the dressing but ya also need to like whats underneath to. yes/no?

CJBFromDa513's photo
Thu 08/02/07 04:52 PM
i totally agree hang man totally... its not that i care WHAT u look like as much as it is i wanna see who i'm talking to.. i'm not sterotypical at all i just dont want to think i'm talking to a girl and it be some big fat rapist or something u know what i mean?

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