When someone makes you feel that you are someone special in their lives, and then stop calling. At least let a person know what they did wrong! This has recently happened to me, and I didn't get a message from him, but a very cold email from his son. It's strange how some just can't admit they don't have the feelings they thought they did for you when you first got together.

Don't get me wrong, I'm moving on with my life, and wish him well, but I really would have liked an explanation from him, on why he suddenly changed his mind.

I know woman are guilty of this also, I see this a flaw in one's personality Or worse yet, a red flag, that something wasn't real about them to begin with, which is sad.

it is a very mean thing somebody can do to another person that cared for them. I think we need the explanation to help bring closure. But for them its easy,cause they don't care.

Your right Betty, perhaps it's a woman's thing, that we need closure? But I don't want to make that generalization about one gender over another, because I don't think that is fair. I'm sure men have experienced this behavior from women also.