Topic: Too Many Questions?
PacificStar48's photo
Mon 07/23/12 04:36 PM
I get part of dating is asking questions but when your date is just asking too many questions and it starts feeling like and interview would you;
A) Pretend you are struck deaf
B) Give a clearly outrageous answer
C) Ask them a really embarrassing question
D) Excuse yourself to the bathroom and go home.or
E) Fill in your own solution.

JamieRawxx's photo
Mon 07/23/12 04:45 PM

I get part of dating is asking questions but when your date is just asking too many questions and it starts feeling like and interview would you;
A) Pretend you are struck deaf
B) Give a clearly outrageous answer
C) Ask them a really embarrassing question
D) Excuse yourself to the bathroom and go home.or
E) Fill in your own solution.


Ask them why they are putting me on trial..

BettyB's photo
Mon 07/23/12 04:47 PM
Unless you are hiding something, why not just answer them?

luvin53's photo
Mon 07/23/12 04:49 PM
Some people when they like somone they want to get to know all about the other. Just sometimes to quickly.Just start asking questions back or tell the other it makes you uncomfortable. Just always be tru to you.

PacificStar48's photo
Mon 07/23/12 04:52 PM
LOL I have a couple times thought about asking if they were writing an autobiography?

LOL Me hide something nahhhhh. I just think people don't have the right to know some things for a casual date.

PacificStar48's photo
Mon 07/23/12 04:59 PM

Some people when they like somone they want to get to know all about the other. Just sometimes to quickly.Just start asking questions back or tell the other it makes you uncomfortable. Just always be tru to you.


Always being true to yourself is Good Advice.(((Luvin)))

Rasmus916's photo
Mon 07/23/12 05:01 PM
Honestly, some people say I don't ask enough questions let alone talk enough, some people say I talk too much. It is honestly dependent on the situation and the people involved.

If someone were asking me a bunch of questions, normally I wouldn't have any issue, I understand some people have a natural curious nature. On the other hand if the questions became too personal, then I would flat out tell them that I do not feel right answering that question just yet and they would have to get to know me more before I felt compfortable speaking about such a topic

BettyB's photo
Mon 07/23/12 05:13 PM

LOL I have a couple times thought about asking if they were writing an autobiography?

LOL Me hide something nahhhhh. I just think people don't have the right to know some things for a casual date.

Well thats true I guess. I thought you meant dating, not a casual date which is different.

PacificStar48's photo
Mon 07/23/12 05:25 PM
That kind of dating was called courting in my day then yes then personal questions do seem fairly no "hold's" barred.

I am kind of wondering how people determine when that transition is made when people seem to believe anything besides just haveing a cup off coffee as a date where just about anything can happen. Yikes.

blueeyes2000's photo
Mon 07/23/12 05:41 PM
I don't mind a lot of questions, to me that shows an interest. It depends on how they go about it though, sometimes, it's doe in such a way that it doesn't seem they are asking in a interesting kind of way.

PacificStar48's photo
Tue 07/24/12 05:59 PM
Yes I think sometimes people are so unsure of their choices from past experiences that they really just put everybody through the meat grinder and it really gets to the point I sometimes think they might ought to lay off dateing and relationships until they feel more secure in their ability to judge people.

willing2's photo
Tue 07/24/12 06:14 PM
Could the same be said for the person who feels like they are being shoved into a meat grinder.
Uncomfortable with someone evaluating and contemplating a potential relation? Back off dating until you feel comfortable with someone attempting to get to know you.
The statement was meant for either the male or female uncomfortable with inquisitive folks.

Suzanne20's photo
Tue 07/24/12 06:32 PM
It depends how the questions are posed. Is it a back and forth thing? Or just one question after another without discussion about the previous one. The latter is the one that irritates me.