Hello to all I have just put a all women question about why you like not we foreigners think you that we not also have a heart for love? I am not racism but it is a fact. I am Congolese foreign but I am here in 2 years South Africa soon I note with bitterness that we are not to love. God has creation did not have a country so that only the inhabitants of the lower can live alone. It is because of a problem that I due to leave my country to come here. I also have to love women by but why me escape, decline, me deconsidere?

Hey Honore, you gotta understand that people have different tastes & preferences. Some feel comfortable to find a mate who's within their reach not someone who comes from miles & miles away from them. I think distance is one of the major hinderances to finding a mate on most dating sites. But hey, keep your hopes high, you never know someone might want to cross boorders just for you, lol.

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hi jessaly...very well said...

I think it may be less racism and more misunderstandings about culture and social values. As unfair as it is; some countries do get a bad reputation for treating women as second class citizens. While some countries still believe the only place women should be is in the home that is rarely acceptable in the States or many European countries. Most computer literate women are career minded and can manage both career and family with equal participation from Father's/Husbands. Personally something I see as a better valuation of men in general.

Or that the people from some places are under educated, lack culture, or are impoverished when that isn't always the facts. It is particularly sad when professional men come from other places and are "demoted" socially for half truths and only mediocre English skills when most could not speak a second language fluently if their lives depended on it.

I do think it is a bit un-realistic to expect a sucessful woman to want to carry you here if you have by choice or the situation in your own country abandoned it and come here with marginal skills. Especially if they have spent a decade or more overcoming from where you will be starting from.