Topic: Chicks Dig Jerks
Filmfreek's photo
Wed 07/18/12 07:52 AM


Why do girls blow me off if I'm nice to them, but they seem interested if I'm an a hole???

Or why do they ignore me if I show interest & then suddenly become interested when I give up on trying to get them to notice me???

Why all the games ladies?


Why play the victim?


Good point. drinker

Kahurangi's photo
Wed 07/18/12 07:58 AM
Edited by Kahurangi on Wed 07/18/12 07:59 AM
I was amused by the title of this thread all the same. As I'm sure you are now that you've recovered from your little rant. :smile:

Edit to add jerking rant :wink:

whattheheywastaken's photo
Wed 07/18/12 08:02 AM
Edited by whattheheywastaken on Wed 07/18/12 08:02 AM
I'm a little confused about the problem. If women you are interested in don't like you when you're nice, don't be nice.



Leave the seat up.

Watch the game while ignoring her.

Say "I'm sorry, I couldn't hear you over how awesome I am."

Wear the wife-beater shirt.

Refer to it as 'the wife-beater shirt'.


Filmfreek's photo
Wed 07/18/12 08:06 AM

I'm a little confused about the problem. If women you are interested in don't like you when you're nice, don't be nice.



Leave the seat up.

Watch the game while ignoring her.

Say "I'm sorry, I couldn't hear you over how awesome I am."

Wear the wife-beater shirt.

Refer to it as 'the wife-beater shirt'.




HA! That's awesome.

That's what I told my ex. "I can be an a hole if you really want me to." ...but...alas...I could not. It's just not in my nature to be mean to people. Oh well. Maybe I'll learn someday...

Filmfreek's photo
Wed 07/18/12 08:07 AM

I was amused by the title of this thread all the same. As I'm sure you are now that you've recovered from your little rant. :smile:

Edit to add jerking rant :wink:


Glad my little hissy fit made you smile. drinker

Kahurangi's photo
Wed 07/18/12 08:25 AM

Quit chasing them and they will chase you.


The only thing I see wrong with that mindset would be missing the boat with a chick because she might think you're simply not interested.

A little bit of bad boy was mentioned as well. Now this is true because alot of chicks dig a guy who isn't afraid to put himself out there, as long as he's exclusively her "bad boy" and not every Thomasina, Dianne & Harriets...ya know?

no photo
Wed 07/18/12 09:09 AM

I'm a little confused about the problem. If women you are interested in don't like you when you're nice, don't be nice.



Leave the seat up.

Watch the game while ignoring her.

Say "I'm sorry, I couldn't hear you over how awesome I am."

Wear the wife-beater shirt.

Refer to it as 'the wife-beater shirt'.




So how's trying to start arguments going to help him?

whattheheywastaken's photo
Thu 07/19/12 08:38 AM


I'm a little confused about the problem. If women you are interested in don't like you when you're nice, don't be nice.



Leave the seat up.

Watch the game while ignoring her.

Say "I'm sorry, I couldn't hear you over how awesome I am."

Wear the wife-beater shirt.

Refer to it as 'the wife-beater shirt'.




So how's trying to start arguments going to help him?


Because it works. (at least with the women he's interrested in)

Goofball73's photo
Thu 07/19/12 09:40 AM
Chicks dig nerds! It's all the rage man!

no photo
Thu 07/19/12 09:57 AM



I'm a little confused about the problem. If women you are interested in don't like you when you're nice, don't be nice.



Leave the seat up.

Watch the game while ignoring her.

Say "I'm sorry, I couldn't hear you over how awesome I am."

Wear the wife-beater shirt.

Refer to it as 'the wife-beater shirt'.




So how's trying to start arguments going to help him?


Because it works. (at least with the women he's interrested in)



How does it work exactly?

no photo
Thu 07/19/12 10:54 AM
If your a nice guy, just keep being so. The more nice people we have in this world the better.

There are women who dump on nice guys, and there are jerks who dump on women. Because of this it might make you feel like it is harder to find the match but if it is meant to be it will happen.


stay nice and be worth twice!

MariahsFantasy's photo
Thu 07/19/12 10:57 AM

MOST women do NOT want jerks...SOME girls do though...I think it goes with the whole excitement factor...also it seems that most people always want what they cant have...the whole chase part of relationships...so the bad boy is the unattainable challenge...what they fail to see is that the guy is a bad boy, in their eyes at least, because he really does not care about them, or much of anything for that matter..other then themselves. Hey, I could be the bad boy...I just have more important things to accomplish in my time here on this earth then being a D!c* LOL...but that's just my opinion...and you know what they say about opinions....haha :P


Correction: SOME whores do. Not to mention it is the WHORES in general who start this mess. A man's intentions from here on (probably forever) are purely created from how their first girlfriends treated them.

But back to girls digging jerks...I don't know any respectful woman out there that craves to be treated like dog chit. That's different. Quite frankly, there are a lot of girls and dudes who get played by insecure small minded pricks out there. I don't know why they stay into it. I really don't get the "chase" bs either. You are probably one of the select few penises out there who doesn't spend a lot of wastrel moments keeping a chick hanging by sweet, charming words. Props brah! flowerforyou

no photo
Thu 07/19/12 11:03 AM

Why do girls blow me off if I'm nice to them, but they seem interested if I'm an a hole???

Or why do they ignore me if I show interest & then suddenly become interested when I give up on trying to get them to notice me???

Why all the games ladies?



There IS a reason.

Women don't go for whiny wimps who appear to be begging for attention.

Women want confident men, not jerks or a$$s holes.

Confident men can be nice, not jerks.

Learn the difference.


no photo
Thu 07/19/12 11:04 AM


Why do girls blow me off if I'm nice to them, but they seem interested if I'm an a hole???

Or why do they ignore me if I show interest & then suddenly become interested when I give up on trying to get them to notice me???

Why all the games ladies?



There IS a reason.

Women don't go for whiny wimps who appear to be begging for attention.

Women want confident men, not jerks or a$$s holes.

Confident men can be nice, not jerks.


Learn the difference.




:thumbsup: to the bold part. I have to wonder why people don't get that.

blueeyes2000's photo
Thu 07/19/12 11:08 AM

Chicks dig nerds! It's all the rage man!


heck yeah!!

Christinacospgs's photo
Thu 07/19/12 11:55 AM
confident = awesome
jerkiness, haughtiness = no no

Ruth34611's photo
Thu 07/19/12 12:23 PM
Thank you for this thread. I have printed it out and hung it up where I will see it should I ever get the insane notion to go on a date again.

willing2's photo
Thu 07/19/12 12:28 PM

HeadnHeart's photo
Thu 07/19/12 12:49 PM



Why do girls blow me off if I'm nice to them, but they seem interested if I'm an a hole???

Or why do they ignore me if I show interest & then suddenly become interested when I give up on trying to get them to notice me???

Why all the games ladies?



There IS a reason.

Women don't go for whiny wimps who appear to be begging for attention.

Women want confident men, not jerks or a$$s holes.

Confident men can be nice, not jerks.


Learn the difference.




:thumbsup: to the bold part. I have to wonder why people don't get that.



Some of us do...tears tearshappy

Ruth34611's photo
Thu 07/19/12 12:59 PM




LOVE Steve Martin. love