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Topic: Nice guys finish last?
Ntusconni Joined Tue 07/10/12 Posts: 2	Tue 07/10/12 11:55 PM
Why do nice guys always finish last? I have a few female friends and they all say the same thing, I'm 'amazing, sweet, kind, wonderful etc' so why do gils go for the bad boys instead. Discuss.

StillLooking29 Joined Tue 04/20/10 Posts: 702	Wed 07/11/12 08:48 AM
There has to be some attraction.

singmesweet Joined Mon 07/28/08 Posts: 26661	Wed 07/11/12 09:36 AM
Real nice guys don't finish last. Those who complain about finishing last and women going for others are the ones who finish last.

Dodo_David Joined Fri 08/13/10 Posts: 48947	Wed 07/11/12 11:01 AM
Why do nice guys always finish last? I have a few female friends and they all say the same thing, I'm 'amazing, sweet, kind, wonderful etc' so why do gils go for the bad boys instead. Discuss. If you are a nice guy, then why are you divorced?

FindMe1113 Joined Tue 04/10/07 Posts: 35104	Wed 07/11/12 08:33 PM
"Finish last"? at what?

IndigoIllusions Joined Sun 05/25/08 Posts: 5625	Wed 07/11/12 09:40 PM
As singmesweet said, truly nice guys (and girls) don't finish last. When they find the right person, one that appreciates all that they are, and aren't, and reciprocates...they finish first.

anandarao81 Joined Sun 07/15/12 Posts: 2	Sun 07/15/12 04:20 AM
You are right dear...i agree

Ice38 Joined Wed 10/15/08 Posts: 25272	Sun 07/15/12 10:15 AM
I hate that saying..it makes no sense at all

Peter_Pan69 Joined Sun 08/23/09 Posts: 2781	Sun 07/15/12 06:16 PM
They finish last because they put others before them...

blueeyes2000 Joined Thu 11/08/07 Posts: 1517	Sun 07/15/12 08:15 PM
Why do nice guys always finish last? I have a few female friends and they all say the same thing, I'm 'amazing, sweet, kind, wonderful etc' so why do gils go for the bad boys instead. Discuss. The girls might, but most women don't. That's bull about nice guys finishing last. The ones who finish last are the ones who let themselves finish that way. There's loads of women who go for nice guys.

Totage Joined Sat 10/13/07 Posts: 24210	Sun 07/15/12 08:20 PM
Why do nice guys always finish last? I have a few female friends and they all say the same thing, I'm 'amazing, sweet, kind, wonderful etc' so why do gils go for the bad boys instead. Discuss. Nice guys finish last because it's the polite thing to do. Girls don't want "Nice Guys" or Bad boys. They want men. They most prefer a man that knows how to properly treat a woman. It's really not rocket science.

Ice38 Joined Wed 10/15/08 Posts: 25272	Sun 07/15/12 09:24 PM
usually when a guy asks a woman "why do nice guys finish last" what they are really saying is "why do you not believe my lies"

blueeyes2000 Joined Thu 11/08/07 Posts: 1517	Mon 07/16/12 12:57 PM
Why do nice guys always finish last? I have a few female friends and they all say the same thing, I'm 'amazing, sweet, kind, wonderful etc' so why do gils go for the bad boys instead. Discuss. Nice guys finish last because it's the polite thing to do. Girls don't want "Nice Guys" or Bad boys. They want men. They most prefer a man that knows how to properly treat a woman. It's really not rocket science.

IndigoIllusions Joined Sun 05/25/08 Posts: 5625	Mon 07/16/12 11:39 PM
...what blue and totage said. I actually have a true "nice guy", and I love and appreciate him and everything he does...AND...vice versa. Someone can be both "nice", and "bad", but they have to be a good and genuine person to begin with. That's the only way it's going to work...you can't just SAY you're nice, you have to show it.

whattheheywastaken Joined Wed 11/30/11 Posts: 1058	Wed 07/18/12 08:41 AM
They finish last because they put others before them... That is ten kinds of deep.

Filmfreek Joined Sat 11/15/08 Posts: 2541	Wed 07/18/12 09:12 AM
Seek out the wise one known as kartagane (profile pic is of an owl...how fitting...haha). He will tell you all you need to know.

ezas123 Joined Thu 07/05/12 Posts: 271	Wed 07/18/12 10:27 AM
maybe i have plenty of guy friends who think being nice is GOOD enough its not you have to approach a woman & take a chance my nice guy buddies SEEM affraid to make a girl laugh DRIVES me crazy, i gotta basiclly lock em in a room to get em to speak HAHA.. it's like hanging with the "40 old virgin" ..

twistedasiwanta Joined Thu 04/19/12 Posts: 2	Fri 08/17/12 10:04 PM
doesn't matter nice guys finish last because they are winners from the gate

twistedasiwanta Joined Thu 04/19/12 Posts: 2	Fri 08/17/12 10:07 PM
sure would like to meet some of them

Sixwheeledone Joined Sun 08/05/12 Posts: 19	Fri 08/17/12 10:56 PM
I too haven't learned how to avoid the (friend zone) I'm a nice guy. Can't help it, don't want to. Was hoping to not have that worry joining a site. We'll just have to see.