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Topic: Do you initiate?
Ladywind7 Joined Sun 04/08/12 Posts: 7833	Mon 07/09/12 03:41 PM
What is your stance on making the first move? This is a dating site, it may help to let others know if you are the pursuer or prefer to be pursued.

BettyB Joined Tue 01/29/08 Posts: 31912	Mon 07/09/12 03:46 PM
Well I prefer to be pursued, but since that never happens I have to do the pursing

blueeyes2000 Joined Thu 11/08/07 Posts: 1517	Mon 07/09/12 03:47 PM
I like being pursued,to be honest. I don't really have a problem with being the pursuer, but guys don't like it too much,when you try to sling them on your shoulder and take advantage of them.

BettyB Joined Tue 01/29/08 Posts: 31912	Mon 07/09/12 03:49 PM
I just like striking them with my lightning bolts.

Totage Joined Sat 10/13/07 Posts: 24210	Mon 07/09/12 03:49 PM
I like being pursued,to be honest. I don't really have a problem with being the pursuer, but guys don't like it too much,when you try to sling them on your shoulder and take advantage of them. Says who? :P

s1owhand Joined Fri 05/18/07 Posts: 29437	Mon 07/09/12 03:53 PM
http://youtu.be/4b-by5e4saI

Ladywind7 Joined Sun 04/08/12 Posts: 7833	Mon 07/09/12 03:57 PM
I just like striking them with my lightning bolts. Lol, thunder and lightening crashing into their sphere, brings them to their knees.

BettyB Joined Tue 01/29/08 Posts: 31912	Mon 07/09/12 04:00 PM
I just like striking them with my lightning bolts. Lol, thunder and lightening crashing into their sphere, brings them to their knees. I LIKE that picture, but then I am an evil woman

blueeyes2000 Joined Thu 11/08/07 Posts: 1517	Mon 07/09/12 04:03 PM
I like being pursued,to be honest. I don't really have a problem with being the pursuer, but guys don't like it too much,when you try to sling them on your shoulder and take advantage of them. Says who? :P Well,it's never worked before

Totage Joined Sat 10/13/07 Posts: 24210	Mon 07/09/12 04:05 PM
I like being pursued,to be honest. I don't really have a problem with being the pursuer, but guys don't like it too much,when you try to sling them on your shoulder and take advantage of them. Says who? :P Well,it's never worked before You may get better results by trying it on the men that are not looking for a boyfriend. :P

Ladywind7 Joined Sun 04/08/12 Posts: 7833	Mon 07/09/12 04:06 PM Edited by Ladywind7 on Mon 07/09/12 04:09 PM
Bettyb Lol. Brings back memories

Totage Joined Sat 10/13/07 Posts: 24210	Mon 07/09/12 04:07 PM
I don't think it really matters who initiates, as long as it gets done.

blueeyes2000 Joined Thu 11/08/07 Posts: 1517	Mon 07/09/12 04:10 PM
I like being pursued,to be honest. I don't really have a problem with being the pursuer, but guys don't like it too much,when you try to sling them on your shoulder and take advantage of them. Says who? :P Well,it's never worked before You may get better results by trying it on the men that are not looking for a boyfriend. :P Could be!

Totage Joined Sat 10/13/07 Posts: 24210	Mon 07/09/12 04:13 PM
Those little details are what get us every time. lol

BettyB Joined Tue 01/29/08 Posts: 31912	Mon 07/09/12 04:14 PM
Bettyb Lol. Brings back memories Really ?Thunder storms can be very romantic.Now I have a memory.

blueeyes2000 Joined Thu 11/08/07 Posts: 1517	Mon 07/09/12 04:16 PM
Those little details are what get us every time. lol Yeah,they slip right by us sometimes,lol Honestly, I rather be pursued,because I have not had much luck being the pursuer. It seems like the guys I have been interested in, it was not a mutual feeling, I guess. So, I now tend to wait and not be the pursuer.

SolitaryMan52402 Joined Sat 11/10/07 Posts: 21147	Mon 07/09/12 04:16 PM
I just like striking them with my lightning bolts. Lol, thunder and lightening crashing into their sphere, brings them to their knees. I LIKE that picture, but then I am an evil woman yes she is

Ladywind7 Joined Sun 04/08/12 Posts: 7833	Mon 07/09/12 04:17 PM
Yes it does matter Say gorgeous blueeyes2000 wanted a guy to make the first move, but the guy saw her as the pursuer, because she is confident and assertive, NOTHING happens.

BettyB Joined Tue 01/29/08 Posts: 31912	Mon 07/09/12 04:18 PM
I just like striking them with my lightning bolts. Lol, thunder and lightening crashing into their sphere, brings them to their knees. I LIKE that picture, but then I am an evil woman yes she is Did you hear me yelling your name?

Totage Joined Sat 10/13/07 Posts: 24210	Mon 07/09/12 04:22 PM
But either one can initiate. Just because neither will doesn't mean they can't.