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Topic: why is is so hard to find true love
wux Joined Wed 07/29/09 Posts: 7426	Mon 08/27/12 05:44 PM
true love develops over time, with shared experiences, goals, ***dreams***,,etc,,, Sorry, MsHarmony, but MLK already said this. Not in this thread, but in his acceptance speech of the Nobel peace prize.

wux Joined Wed 07/29/09 Posts: 7426	Mon 08/27/12 05:49 PM
Sometimes we are so impatient and eventually we meet the wrong kinds of people. Sorry, jesallly, BBKing already said this. Not in this thread, but in his song "Blue About Love".

wux Joined Wed 07/29/09 Posts: 7426	Mon 08/27/12 05:51 PM
Because everyone has an agenda. ? . Sorry, OldHipy, but Bob Dylan already said this. Not in this thread, but in his song, "All I ever want to do is baby be friends with you".

wux Joined Wed 07/29/09 Posts: 7426	Mon 08/27/12 05:52 PM
I want to know why it's called 'true love'. Sorry, Blueeyes, but Marilyn Monroe already said this. Not in this thread, but in the movie "some like it hotttt".

wux Joined Wed 07/29/09 Posts: 7426	Mon 08/27/12 05:55 PM
Because. Sorry, Torgo, but Friedrich Engels already said this. Not in this thread, but in his treatise, "The Origins of Marriage, Private Ownership, and the State".

wux Joined Wed 07/29/09 Posts: 7426	Mon 08/27/12 05:56 PM
It looks like whatever anyone says about love, has been said already.

wux Joined Wed 07/29/09 Posts: 7426	Mon 08/27/12 05:57 PM
It looks like whatever anyone says about love, has been said already. Sorry, wux, but Woodie Allen already said this. In the movie script for "Sex, Love, and the Hassidic Paranoia".

prashant01 Joined Wed 05/06/09 Posts: 14148	Tue 08/28/12 07:43 AM
When it comes to love, we can categories the personalities in lovable ,loving,neutral & hateful ones. Love is a god gifted emotion for every living being which makes life live. World is full of love,we just need to sense it. To be able to sense love around it is needed to be a loving personality. Lovable person gets ample love without attempting or expecting it but if they don't value it,love no longer remains with them. A loving personality feels love in & about most things around them & they always value it. Those who don't love themselves,can't love others too.Loving ourselves is not a selfishness,a true love is always selfless. If I love myself really,it means that I know myself very well,I've accepted myself as I'm & I'm putting the identified flaws in me, away from others so that I don't harm them by any means. Expectations kills love. Why shall we expect others love? Not expecting the love don't mean not needing the love.

51shyguy51 Joined Mon 09/03/12 Posts: 3	Thu 09/06/12 02:28 AM
I honestly don't believe in true love anymore. I think it is a thing of the past. It is rare to find someone that can make you happy enough that you would want to spend your life with them. I am sure there are those that disagree, but I have never seen it once in my life. because he said so, that's why

s1owhand Joined Fri 05/18/07 Posts: 29437	Thu 09/06/12 03:31 AM
why is it so hard to find true love? well...who has the time anymore? finding the right relationship means spending time. first you have to meet a number of people until you find someone who is nicely compatible and that means having a lot of free time to do activities which introduce you to potentially good matches. Even if it is speed dating it's going to take days maybe weeks or months. then, assuming one even finds an interesting potential partner, there has to be plenty of time to spend together getting to know each other to cultivate the relationship and to enjoy it. plus you have to reserve several hours a day for making out and having sex! which is of course what we all should be doing right now! (but not all together YOU PERVERTS)

WhyWorry Joined Mon 08/02/10 Posts: 71	Thu 09/06/12 06:22 AM
its hard to find because when you 'look' for it you must be pre defining it true love develops over time, with shared experiences, goals, dreams,,etc,,, Wow, i completely agree

WhyWorry Joined Mon 08/02/10 Posts: 71	Thu 09/06/12 06:26 AM
Well Ruth; I hope you truly find what you are seeking. You deserve no less. Thank you. Whether I do or not, I'm very happy. You know I think that is what is most important is to be happy. Life is too short not to be. Totally agree there

sweetestgirl11 Joined Fri 09/12/08 Posts: 30087	Thu 09/06/12 06:32 PM
Could that be "true Love"?? Or is that being too "full of oneself" for the readers? Edit: But wait there's more!! Again...society dictates that we simply "must" have somebody to love us. Why is that? Are we so unlovable that we need somebody to do the loving for us? Just a thought.... I totally agree with what you are saying. Society does seem to dictate how we should live their lives and I for one have always questioned it. I was just saying the same thing on the Real men/Real woman thread that we should not have to bend to society's will. Its just like the idea that you are not complete unless you are partnered up or you aren't complete unless you have a child, etc. I often wonder if people think this way as they are insecure about themselves? possilby or feel to a degree threatened by choices that vary to greatly from their own as some require more extrinsic validation than others

conarch Joined Sun 09/09/12 Posts: 1	Wed 09/12/12 07:42 AM
One should have patience.hasty will not help.

Rawrr_Girl Joined Sun 10/04/09 Posts: 4431	Wed 09/12/12 08:52 AM Edited by Rawrr_Girl on Wed 09/12/12 09:00 AM
Because they always wonder what their ex is up to these days, they don't wanna move on [they just pretend they want to as it sounds like their already over him/her], they never give themselves enough time to grieve. REALLY grieve. It helps massage their ego if they find someone soon after their last break- up. Way.........too..............soon. If you've ever heard of the saying "Check yourself before you wreck yourself!", you know that is very sound advice. So I think people really need to be sure that their heart and anger has healed before considering another relationship.