ladies... would you date fat men??

Depends....
Does he have respect for me?
Is he honest, genuine, sincere?
Does he bathe daily?

Well I'm only gonna say this once you are getting in area's that has
nothing to do with what is in side don't you recall the post you had
about fat women gawd it brought ya some grief I think subjects like this
is way off. If Iloved him the size would not matter for I am not one too
judge. I would rather see you post would women eat dick than put some
one down for how they look or what they think.

Only my thoughts!

OK, WOULD WOMEN EAT DICK? BY-THE-WAY, who is DICK?

lol!!!!... i like that!

this is a perception thing just like what i brought up in the stop lying
post. it is very admirable to say that it does not matter and everyone
is looking for someone to love them for who they are but the cold
reality of life is that people judge by physical appearance alot of the
times. alot of men and women will not date a fat person. their decision
may change once they get to know them but at first glance alot of people
wouldn't approach a fat person because the majority of the population
does not consider it to be physically attractive.

by the way....i would date a fat woman. it is not hard for me to find
something physically beautiful or sexy about any woman and i am always
interested in finding out what is inside. when you meet the special one
it doesn't matter what they look like because they are all you want.

Yes

Yes I would and I have..I am not ,after all, a skinny person. Now I want
to say from my viewpoint because of the weight issue I don't judge
anyone because of their weight, I want and need toknow the person
inside.

The way I see it...is if someone is over weight (sorry I hate using the
word "fat") that is something that can be changed...who they are on the
inside does not...This has been an issue in my dating as I am a lil over
weight. I have had guys tell me that I was a little bit bigger than
what they expected "but I think you'll work"..nope sorry, don't think
so. I am always very upfront that i have extra cushion. I do not hide
behind it and I do not deny it. There is no gray area, you can't
"think" someone will work. It's black and white..either you like the
person for who they are and can see past the weight issue..or your
shallow and can't. There is no in between.

Would I???

YOU BET!!! WHY U MIGHT ASKE?? well.......to me there all like
lumberjacks to me, they stand tall as a redwood, and have hearts as big
as the sky & have such a wonderful personality & giving & sharing is a
way of life to them, not a task. They truely are something go
behold.......and let me tell yah I DO HOLD EM!! (smiling)
Everyone is unique in gods eyes......we all have different shapes and
the color of our eyes and hair are all different..but...the man upstairs
made us all different and unque for a reason.........I look at everyone
from the inside out.........I look at the heart......the sixe shape or
figure doesnot matter to me...............the heart makes the person..
but let me tell u.........this

THIN MAYBE IN.......................BUT FATS WHERE ITS AT!!!!
giggling.......... so smile ladies.....

the best teddybear in the world can be thee most loving kind gentle
honest faitful giving and respectful man in the world and one u may
never have a chance to meet ever again.......just be nice......and
smile......they will appreciate it....

we all need lovin! dont you??


I love everyone....ty for listening!!!


huuggs my dear freinds!!


Dakotas55

And as far as dating men who are over weight..for me personally, I
prefer bigger guys..tall, stocky build. I typically would not date a
skinny guy. I want someone to hang onto, feel safe in their arms, etc.

Not only have I dated heavy men, I lived with one for 5 years. What
initially drew me to him was his salt and pepper hair. The "salt" part
shone like liquid silver! He looked relatively normal from behind, but
up front, he was 9 months pregnant and that belly was HARD. You could
bounce a quarter off it.

Yes, I loved him, and still do. Even though the relationship didn't
work, he's been my best friend/big brother since we met in '98.

I was told by an older gentleman a few years ago..that women are not
fat, they are just huggable!

A woman after my own heart!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

ty very much for that.........I totally agree....


I myself love em tall and big husky and teddybearish....

they have so much charm......good personalities and wonderfully
big hands for holding you and holding hands...

IM DARN PROUD TO BE any of them............darn proud!!!



the taller the bigger the better......


mmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm!

makes my heart skippp beats...........giggling

Theres just more to LOVE in big men..............so much more! they are
very sensual and sensitive.......I myself am not small by no means, not
even when I was born...giggling....but u no what........I LIKE MYSELF
JUST AS I AM.......and wouldnt change for no man.........hes gotta love
me.......I M MUST LOVEABLE..

ty ladies for your wonderful thoughts.....u all have made me
smile.......huggs to each and everyone of you......


BIG MEN LOOK OUT..............HERE WE COME!!!!



Dakotas 55

My brother once bought me a bumper sticker, I was 15 at the time,and it
said " I was built for comfort , not for speed", I still have it. It was
at a time in my life where I was otally down on myself fo being a chubby
gurl, it was Matt's way of telling me that I was just fine the way I was
and that someplace out there was someone worthy of me. So ladies and
guys if you chubby, over wieght what have you, just know that you were
built for comfort not for sped. COmfort gets you alot farther inlife
than speed does :)

thats good..........& I am definitely built for COMFORT!
The speed somewhat left me when i turned 50...but in my mind, im
still ZOOOMING ALONG NICELY!!


Dakotas55

IVE DATED ALL KINDS,APPEARANCE IS IMPORTANT THO,THEY SHOULD BE CLEAN
LOOKS DONT MATTER
THE LAST GUY I WAS IN LOVE WITH
WAS 'OVERWEIGHT'
IVE DATED SKINNY
IVE DATED GUYS WITH 'PERFECT' BODIES
IN MY EYES IT DONT MATTER

Gotta love TEDDYBEARS!!

THEY ARE SO HUGGABLE!!!

GOOD KISSERS TOO, I MIGHT ADD!!!



Dakotas55