The question should be how overweight is too overweight(fat)? I think
everyone has their limits. Like I would never date someone that is 400
pounds. Call me shallow, but how can relationship like that work?
Although, I would date woman up to 300 pounds. I know some guys that
can't get past the 150 pound mark!!!!

To me, its simple. If i am interested in you than your weight ,your
color,your religon,your past,does not decide for me if I will date you.
First of all its just one date, Second of all if Im'm not interested
it's not even that. You know?

There is a limit for me, actually. That "limit" is in HIS mind, not
mine!

To illustrate, I was friends with a guy I worked with for a short time.
Really cute, sweet and funny, and recently seperated. We got along from
the minute we met, and worked together like we were twins.

I was finding myself quite attracted to him, and eventually he got
around to "kinda" asking me out. But his insecurity blew it for me. He
started like this..."I know I'm fat, and you can have any guy you want,
and I'm really fat, but if you wanted to go out to get something to eat
or something...if you don't mind me being fat.."

I would have gone out with him...except for that hang up he had with his
weight. He was giving me "an out" before he even asked!

I'm sorry, but "sympathy dates" are my personal limit.

i've had problems with girls like that. you can tell them that they are
sexy and show that you think they are but it'll never make a difference
if they don't believe it.

I'll work with someone if they let me...but I can't work miracles.