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Topic: deal breakers
tazzops Joined Sat 12/20/08 Posts: 33333	Mon 07/02/12 12:34 PM
Murder one charge.

jake978 Joined Tue 06/15/10 Posts: 25	Mon 07/02/12 02:24 PM
It's callEd being a Man, and if a Someone thinks of himself as religious and has gets out of wedlock itS even more of a deal breakEr..

blueeyes2000 Joined Thu 11/08/07 Posts: 1517	Mon 07/02/12 02:27 PM
In a dream world,there would be no kids born out of wedlock. In reality there's a lot of kids born out of wedlock. How does that make a man(or woman) any less of a man/woman?

jake978 Joined Tue 06/15/10 Posts: 25	Mon 07/02/12 02:30 PM
, "Men" who have kids out Of wedlock... back in the day a woman became a man's wife by the man going into her - that's how I still see it today...so if a man goes into a woman and by that act she becomes his wife children cannot be born unto her out of wedlock. really???? PIck and chooses huH??? That would also mean there are lots of men And women married to lots Of other men and women... I'm taLking legal And religious ( if one thinkS he is)

jake978 Joined Tue 06/15/10 Posts: 25	Mon 07/02/12 02:33 PM
In a dream world,there would be no kids born out of wedlock. In reality there's a lot of kids born out of wedlock. How does that make a man(or woman) any less of a man/woman? I'm talking men here ok?? Cuz If a women wants to bE married but stays with A man ands keeps hAving kids with him thats on her..

blueeyes2000 Joined Thu 11/08/07 Posts: 1517	Mon 07/02/12 02:37 PM
In a dream world,there would be no kids born out of wedlock. In reality there's a lot of kids born out of wedlock. How does that make a man(or woman) any less of a man/woman? I'm talking men here ok?? Cuz If a women wants to bE married but stays with A man ands keeps hAving kids with him thats on her.. So if a woman is with a man and has kid(s) with him,it's on her and it's ok. If a man is with a woman,has kids with her out of wedlock,he's less of a man?

jake978 Joined Tue 06/15/10 Posts: 25	Mon 07/02/12 02:42 PM
In a dream world,there would be no kids born out of wedlock. In reality there's a lot of kids born out of wedlock. How does that make a man(or woman) any less of a man/woman? I'm talking men here ok?? Cuz If a women wants to bE married but stays with A man ands keeps hAving kids with him thats on her.. So if a woman is with a man and has kid(s) with him,it's on her and it's ok. If a man is with a woman,has kids with her out of wedlock,he's less of a man? That's no what I wroTe if that's hoW you take it fine..

blueeyes2000 Joined Thu 11/08/07 Posts: 1517	Mon 07/02/12 02:43 PM
In a dream world,there would be no kids born out of wedlock. In reality there's a lot of kids born out of wedlock. How does that make a man(or woman) any less of a man/woman? I'm talking men here ok?? Cuz If a women wants to bE married but stays with A man ands keeps hAving kids with him thats on her.. So if a woman is with a man and has kid(s) with him,it's on her and it's ok. If a man is with a woman,has kids with her out of wedlock,he's less of a man? That's no what I wroTe if that's hoW you take it fine.. I didn't take it any way, I was asking you how you meant it

Godiva Joined Tue 12/09/08 Posts: 5330	Mon 07/02/12 02:56 PM
The obvious ones of racism, bigotry and lying and cheating, but more so, the inability to communicate. I think it is easily the most important part to any relationship I envision having.

Desi18 Joined Mon 05/28/12 Posts: 188	Thu 07/12/12 12:09 PM
Awkwardness and tighty-whities

pennyg281 Joined Thu 11/08/07 Posts: 4348	Thu 07/12/12 12:22 PM
My deal breakers . . .some one who abuses drugs or alcohol. . . some one who is physically or verbally abusive . . . some who proves that they can't be trusted.

Filmfreek Joined Sat 11/15/08 Posts: 2541	Thu 07/12/12 12:29 PM
Hmmm...I don't know. I'm pretty open minded. Probably music & or movie preferences. Two of my biggest passions, so if we couldn't enjoy them together, it probably wouldn't work. And they have to like my dog of course. And no hypochondriacs please.

Sandelwood4 Joined Sat 08/13/11 Posts: 466	Thu 07/12/12 03:26 PM Edited by Sandelwood4 on Thu 07/12/12 03:28 PM
There are some obvious ones and some that are already mentioned but I just discovered a new one. Just recently I was out on a date with a nice man and I found myself either dosing off or drifting off in thought. This bothered me because I thought I was being inconsidered so did some reflecting what was going on but I couldn't fully figure it out. I met with him again to pay more close attention and I discovered that most of what he said didn't make any sense. He was not able to make his points clear. He would start a thought but was not able to stay on point. He rambled about anything and nothing. When I asked him what he was talking about I noticed he would say anything he thought I'd want to hear and switch viewpoints according to my response and reaction.

lilcountrygrl Joined Tue 05/15/12 Posts: 25	Thu 07/12/12 03:53 PM
abusive, controlling, racist, dislikes children, smokes, wants to turn me into a barbie doll lol

teadipper Joined Wed 10/19/11 Posts: 2732	Thu 07/12/12 04:27 PM
regardless of how much you are attracted to someone if the person you are attracted to had this quality any chance at a relationship would be doomed - please list your deal breaker Anyone who sees the whole world as black and white as in all or nothing. I have to laugh a little to myself at the back hair remarks. My ex husband had a hairy back. I have never minded hairy men. I see it as they are past puberty and have testosterone. One day I noticed his back hair was graying. I said, "You're a silverback now, you know what that means....if you were a gorilla, you would be in charge now!!" My current BF is a fuzz ball too. Doesn't bother me. It actually cracks me up. He has a Marines tattoo under the hair because when he was in the Marines when he was younger, he didn't have a hairy back yet. YES, I have a very twisted sense of what is funny.

Pr1nc3ss Joined Thu 07/05/12 Posts: 39	Thu 07/12/12 04:44 PM
Cheating....Dishonesty?...........And no love for children....and No compassion

NeckRomancer Joined Thu 04/02/09 Posts: 3	Thu 07/12/12 04:49 PM
Lorena Bobbick types would be a deal breaker for me.

Godiva Joined Tue 12/09/08 Posts: 5330	Thu 07/12/12 05:25 PM
Awkwardness and tighty-whities Hey! Tighty-whities are stylin'! Well, for some people they are at least.

RedMiist Joined Fri 12/16/11 Posts: 28	Thu 07/12/12 09:16 PM
When Im in a relationship Lies .... that includes cheating, dishonesty, mistrust ect ... When getting to know someone if she smokes

krupa Joined Thu 07/03/08 Posts: 18651	Thu 07/12/12 09:21 PM
Crude, Perverted, Lack of Morals and Values, Disrespectful, Lack of Compassion, Lacking Manners, Alcoholic and/or Drug User, Liar, Self Righteous, Self Centered, Self Assuming, Racist, Ignorant, Messy/Dirty, Bad Hygiene. ..sooooooo...I guess this means we ain't gonna hook up. :(