i hear alot of people saying dating sites dont work... things take time.. love takes time....theres no magic cure for lonliness except iam comfortable with myself.... the key for me is if am comfortable with myself i will find that specail one it all takes time ...believe it or not i asked someone out yesterday stone cold sober usally my tougue gets tied lol .. well i have a date tommro..right here in my hometown.. so wish me luck .. i havent had a date in 2 years not sure how to act.. but i will just be myself..

Hi Stevil, Welcome to the site!!

Good Luck on your date!!!

& yes your words ring true!!

very true..best of luck with that..im sure u will do fine

my ??? is how some people meet on line and havnt met in person yet and already are inlove with eachother..doesnt make sense to me. oh well, wish them the best of luck too..

>> the key for me is if am comfortable with myself i will find that specail one it all takes time

Yes! Well said.

Total agreement with this, you have to be in tune with yoursef before you can get in tune with others. If your life is full of turmoil, don't think you can find the peaceto build a relationship.

Long distance relationships can be built only if there is even more trust & totally open contact. Sometimes you meet someone & things just click, this is the exceptio, not the rule.

well i met someone online once i t was a disater..ofcourse she didnt tell me she was married ...15 years... until i actually moved there... so ..it works for some...i was so tired of greyhound after that trip...

thanks catch_me for the welcome

A shower, clean socks, and brush your teeth! Oh and don't forget the money to pay the bill.......ummmm Thats about all I remember from dating! Hope it helps LOL!

Oh yeah relax and have fun

thanks karen.. "taking notes" but is she going to smell my socks? oh well doesnt matter.. clean ones they will be..lmao

Well one never knows!

Oh clean undies in case you have an accident too! Mom always said that!

Course if you had an accident well......... They wouldn't be clean anymore would they!

yeah mom said that all the time.. karen you crack me up.. and thanks !!!

Just step out in faith, Steve. If there is to be any rejection let it be her rejecting you instead of you rejecting yourself before you get to her. You got everything you need right in yourself.

thanks hill iam just going to be my angel self..lmao !!! wheres my crinkle halo??

Its hanging off your horns so it won't fall off. Don't worry about a thing. Everything will be alright.

too funny hill lmao she knows am sober so thats a good thing.. she didnt know me when i was a drunk.. thats another good thing..

ENJOY

Welcome to JSH Steve, Its good to see a new face...You will find alot of support here and make good friends.I have found it to be a wonderful place.
Being yourself is the best thing you can do...and remember You deserve only the best life has to offer.So dont take less than that.
Have an awesome day!!
GEL

hey stevil
how are you