ok now i'm really crying

You don't have to be skinny to be beautiful. In fact, many men do find bigger women to be more attractive.

Pay attention to the couples you see. It's not just the skinny ones that are finding love. It's even noted in some of the profiles and topics posted that some men find bigger women more attractive.

Unless it's causing health issues, your weight is not the problem.

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You're young, beautiful, and from what you've posted seem to have an awesome personality as well. You should see that for yourself. If you can't see it, work on those issues. I believe you have the strength to overcome whatever this issue is.

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My guess is a nice cup of green tea, a warm bubble bath, and a good nights sleep and the world and your view will be much diffent tomorrow. (((Music)))

You have 4 pages of people telling you how beautiful you are - that should help. Music

You are a very beautiful woman and you have no reason to think otherwise. You need to just everyday look in the mirror and tell yourself... I am beautiful! And just keep doing it because it damn well is true.

honey wow umm correction i'm deaf in one ear thanks for protecting me :)

What a very bonnie lady you are - you also sound a very bonnie inside too - I for one would be very proud to know you : )

pretty and beauty full ,,,i know

He's a fashion designer, Music...now do you believe it?

Depends on if you believe his profile.

HI MUSIC,think what you have done on here,you have opened your heart to people about the problems your having with self confidence,this is as any doctor will tell you,the first step to overcoming your problems.
everyone is telling you that your'e very pretty and as most people on here your'e carrying a few extra pounds.WE ALL ARE,except the lucky ones but just ignore them
you have made your first steps so congratulations on that huge achievment,listen to advice especially from pacificstar,she knows what she's talking about.
plan something each day after looking in the mirror and stating 'i am a winner' repeatedly.
go out for a walk,small steps remember,go to the shop buy something healthy,a piece of fruit,low call drink best of all natural flavoured water(lots of water is the most important thing you can have 2 ltrs a day minimum).it improves your skin 10 fold.
or spend a whole day trying new make up,get friends round to help,make a party off it.healthy food/drinks only.
Last off all share your concerns with family and friends.
GOOD LUCK MUSIC