Topic: Am i pretty?
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Wed 06/27/12 04:57 AM
Edited by tecky on Wed 06/27/12 05:36 AM

I don't think i am.

off course your pretty,take a good look in the mirror and see what i see,a beautiful young lady.with many a wonderful things too look forward too.trust me there is. sadly your far too young for me.

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Wed 06/27/12 05:10 AM

"Tell a girl she's beautiful she will believe it for a day. Tell her she is ugly and she will believe it for a lifetime." Unfortunately this seems to be true a lot of the time. As long as YOU don't think you are pretty, and don't carry yourself in high regard, it will show and you can attract the wrong kind of attention. And no offense to anyone, but some people will only say you look good because they want something from you. You have to believe you are worth something before anyone else will truly see it.

very wise words,take note music and remember we are all beautiful and that includes you.big hug.

TheCaptain's photo
Wed 06/27/12 06:23 AM
Hey Music.....didn't I tell you that your a hot one?

Three pages on a "rate me thread" doesn't happen very often.


And please post more pictures of your sexy self.

blueeyes2000's photo
Wed 06/27/12 06:33 AM

Music, you're so beautiful, from the inside and out. That's what counts to me about people, and what makes them truly beautiful. Besides, haven't you seen all the men going after you in the "playhouse"? Heck, even Blue and I? :tongue:
Don't ever doubt again babe, k? You're gorgeous. If you ever need an esteem boost again, talk to me. I'll tell you again. Post more pics, I wanna see you.


Yeah! We all wanna see more pics:tongue:

Christinacospgs's photo
Wed 06/27/12 06:37 AM


Music, you're so beautiful, from the inside and out. That's what counts to me about people, and what makes them truly beautiful. Besides, haven't you seen all the men going after you in the "playhouse"? Heck, even Blue and I? :tongue:
Don't ever doubt again babe, k? You're gorgeous. If you ever need an esteem boost again, talk to me. I'll tell you again. Post more pics, I wanna see you.


Yeah! We all wanna see more pics:tongue:


You got 3 pages of responses here...that should tell you a lot. We all :heart: you. flowerforyou

PacificStar48's photo
Wed 06/27/12 10:09 AM

It may seem silly, but it actually helps. When you wake up in the morning, look into your eyes in the mirror and smile and say "Hello beautiful". Look at yourself naked in the mirror and tell yourself you are beautiful. Sounds silly, but it does help.

Surround yourself with real friends and family that love and accept you for you.

Write down every good thing about you that you can think of.

May see silly and pointless, but it will help you.

There's no shame in seeking professional help,if needed either.


Spot on Tote. Self affirmation takes practice for most people and not a bad way to pull yourself up.

PacificStar48's photo
Wed 06/27/12 10:42 AM
A technical answer to to the question.

One aspect of my job, at one time, was kind of this. I was suppose to look at someone and see how they might be read by others purely from appearance.

It is kind of a cruel way to size someone up but to be honest we all wonder how we do in this area. And knowing can be useful.

Yes you are what is generally very pretty. Your face is symmetrical/porportional and your skin tones and features quite feminine and natural looking. Your appearance while not overwhelmingly beautiful or exotic is going to linger in the mind and people will naturally warm to a well executed photo with little or no need for a lot of text or props. The nore often they see it the more likely they are to feel comfortable and respond to you. It would make you very marketable in some professions and might even generate some jealousy in situations where someone might want to be more or less memorable.

You are very lucky that the camera, with the right lighting and position, will really like you. That is kind of rare so count your self way in the win column on this one.

You are also lucky your look is versital. You can, since you have good basics, ramp it up or down accordingly. You might even have the look that has good commercial appeal or glamore if you have the skills or can find someone who can advise you there. It would be really easy to overload the look you have so do so carefully.

As an artist and a photographer you would be the one I would enjoy working with. Might take some time to get you to relax for the camera and enjoy having your picture taken because of confidence but you would make almost anyone who likes to take pictures look good. Actually your lead shot is above par. maybe that was luck or skill but I would hang onto that photo even if I kept things fresh adding new ones.

Last but not least you have a look that will age well. That doesn't mean you will get away with neglecting it but when you are older you will hear things like "Oh you are as pretty as you ever were and they won't be just blowing smoke in your ear to get in your panties or storke your tender ego."

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Wed 06/27/12 12:38 PM
music,please try find a programme we have in the england called 'how to look good naked' it's hosted by a very camp man called 'Gok Wan'
he takes people who feel theyre not pretty and feel embarresed about their bodies or have given up trying to look good he shows them how to dress ,have their hair and make up,all by very cheap and simple methods. The idea is at the end they do a cat walk in front of hundreds of people and have the choice to drop everything' in a tasteful way. the changes in the people is mind blowing the confidence they gain and knowledge of useing simple technique to show their best assets is just amazing.
it's also very funny,so you have nothing to loose,
its on channel 4 i think.

musicteach's photo
Wed 06/27/12 08:05 PM
i'm too fat to be pretty

DaveyB's photo
Wed 06/27/12 08:16 PM
definitely not. Weight has nothing to do with beauty. For every body shape there someone who loves it. And real beauty starts in the heart, and yours is as beautiful as any I've ever met.

Christinacospgs's photo
Wed 06/27/12 08:19 PM
me too, girl. Now come into the shower and let's play!!! :tongue:

cb_rawr's photo
Wed 06/27/12 10:35 PM
There is nothing more beautiful than confidence, and loving yourself. Work on that, and you will begin to see what others do.

DaveyB's photo
Wed 06/27/12 10:43 PM

There is nothing more beautiful than confidence, and loving yourself. Work on that, and you will begin to see what others do.


Well said CB.

swt_angel's photo
Thu 06/28/12 02:11 AM
Hi there,

i think you are pretty... but then it doesnt matter what anyone else thinks unless you start believing that you are pretty and a lovely person to be with...

So chin up and all the best...happy

Totage's photo
Thu 06/28/12 09:28 AM

i'm too fat to be pretty


Just because they're running a sale on BS doesn't mean you have to buy it. I'd get my money back if I were you.

Beauty come in all kinds of shapes , sizes, colors. No, you're not Barbie. Is that the only beauty there is? Of course not.

blueeyes2000's photo
Thu 06/28/12 10:01 AM
Is this something you're feeling because of someone else's actions/words? If so, you shouldn't be feeling that way. I know how you feel though, I went thru some weight issues a couple of years ago,due to 2 knee surgeries,and I hated to even look at myself. But it's gotten better, you would be surprised how much better you feel being healthy/active. I didn't say skinny though. Every woman(and man) has a different body,but you don't need to be skinny to be attractive. Anyone can see how attractive you are, and not just physically. It's hard to believe people,or change your way of thinking, but you're the last person who should be feeling down about their looks.

Dodo_David's photo
Thu 06/28/12 01:07 PM
Can someone define "pretty"?

luv2roknroll's photo
Thu 06/28/12 02:32 PM
Pretty isnt a look babe...

its whats in your heart, your soul, your mind, and your attitude.

If you dont love yourself, no one else can.

And im not saying walk around like your s**t dont stink, im saying love WHO AND WHAT YOU ARE,

then,

you will never have to ask this question again,

because you will know,

that your beautiful.

PacificStar48's photo
Thu 06/28/12 04:14 PM

i'm too fat to be pretty


Well that is just the most outrageous thing I have ever heard!!! lol

You are far from fat by almost anyones standards.

And even if you were, how does that equate with pretty?

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Thu 06/28/12 07:22 PM
Well a low carb diet and lots of cardio will extenuate your natural beauty, you're beautiful regardless, it's just a thought, also eat a serving of raw oatmeal every morning, it'll take the pounds off.