Topic: Not so new... but still unnoticed....rate me!
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Fri 06/08/12 05:54 AM
Hello, evryone!!! I´ve been posting as everybody says, and still no one will chat or exchange e-mails with me... I don´t know if my profile is too honest and it comes across as being rude, too straightforward perhaps?
I know I have no good pics but I´ll upload some good ones where you can see my face
Apart from that... is it that bad? AM I that bad???
Please, be honest, I can take it... and as my profile says "honesty above all"
Thanks!!!
Have anice one! :-)

soufiehere's photo
Fri 06/08/12 06:02 AM
Mmmm, it does have an overall 'negative' feeling.
Probably because there is more about what you do
NOT want than what you do.

You want to leave your viewers with a positive vibe.
Patience, gf, it can happen, and the forums are
indeed the way to go :-)

Welcome :-)

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Fri 06/08/12 06:18 AM
Thank you so much for your feedback
the long list of Do not like is because I had had so many bad experiences online.... but I agree with you... it isn´t such a positive idea...
I´ll try to modify it a bit and as i said before, upload more picts
thanks!

soufiehere's photo
Fri 06/08/12 06:20 AM
They DO love pics.
Methinks the menz lookz more than they readz :-)

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Fri 06/08/12 07:07 AM
it´s true, the first thing they ask for is your pic
(that already proves that if they wrote "making friends" on their profile is such a lie!)

Dequeen's photo
Fri 06/08/12 07:16 AM
You are just fine

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Fri 06/08/12 08:01 AM
Thanks Dequeen! :-)

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Fri 06/08/12 08:26 AM
Great new pics..welcome and best wishes.flowerforyou

Bravalady's photo
Fri 06/08/12 08:59 AM
Seems good, great pictures now. You might put a little more about the kind of person you're looking for. Keep it positive as you've done with your (very good) description of yourself. If you're really just looking for a friend, nothing romantic at all, be aware that will probably reduce your responses. But good luck!

soufiehere's photo
Fri 06/08/12 09:31 AM
Wow, you really took it all in.
Great job on the profile, radically better :-)

And, it shows you are a listener..this bodes
well on the forums :-)

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Fri 06/08/12 09:46 AM
Thanks soufie, bravalady and 2kidsmom! I really appreciate your feedback!
Thank you for taking the time to read my profile... you are so niice ladies!
Have a great day and good luck to you too!
:-)

soufiehere's photo
Fri 06/08/12 09:57 AM
Just get your charming self out there in the
forums and nature will do the rest :-)

Citizen_Joe's photo
Fri 06/08/12 12:20 PM

Hello, evryone!!! I´ve been posting as everybody says, and still no one will chat or exchange e-mails with me... I don´t know if my profile is too honest and it comes across as being rude, too straightforward perhaps?
I know I have no good pics but I´ll upload some good ones where you can see my face
Apart from that... is it that bad? AM I that bad???
Please, be honest, I can take it... and as my profile says "honesty above all"
Thanks!!!
Have anice one! :-)


It wouldn't be a bad idea to upload a map and point to where you are on it or list your country, which could be Argentina. Other than that, I don't see a problem.

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Fri 06/08/12 08:19 PM
Thanks Citizen, how did u know I´m from Argentina???

wux's photo
Sat 06/09/12 08:23 AM
I would suggest that you put up a few more pictures. In bathing suits, but no sunglasses. It also helps to look like ash-blonde. By whatever means it takes to get there. A girl on another website put up pictures from work, and she got to choose from five different dinner date invitations 24/7. Her job was to wrestle other topless women in vat of jello.

If you work as a Playboy Bunny, or as a pole-dancer, you could also benefit from work pics. If you work as a deep-sea diver for Exxon or as part of an environmental clean-up crew who specializes in sewage pipe breakage and overflow, or in cleaning up human remains from train wrecks, maybe don't put in pics. Or if you are professional medical photographer who specializes in skin-disease shots of the primary reproductive organs for medical text books.

Negative is not always the worst thing to put in a profile. But it does deter the negative people, the kind you'd probably get along the best with. You end up with all kinds of positive people, and that's trouble, when you put th+ of the car booster cable together with th-. The electricity will create a spark that can burn you, and eat its way into your heart through arching there from your handshake in a nanosecond.

Play it safe. Join a convent.


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Sat 06/09/12 02:29 PM
wix . I read al that and no, I´m not posting pics of me in any bathing suit and none of the above mentioned is my profession..
Maybe you´re too sarcastic and it is lost in translation ... but what the =)/& was that? "join a convent???" I have only walked into a church twice in my life and both times it was against my will... so you get the picture right?

I have read other comments you posted before and you usually seem to be such fun, but I´m not sure about what you´ve posted here

Anyway, the ladies have already given me good advice and I took it and now I´m getting e-mails and "nudges, or hugs" from cool guys...
so, I think that if I have any doubts, Soufiehere, Bravelady and 2kidsmom got my back!! THOSE WOMEN ROCK!! :-)