Topic: HOW DO YOU ENDED IT
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Sun 10/15/06 03:30 PM
What is the easiest way to get out of a relationship and how do you tell
someone that your not in to them??

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Sun 10/15/06 03:40 PM
Humm its never easy one to swallow but I did about about 6 months ago
and actually we still talk by IM and a phone call once in a while just
as friends only. The only thing that works is the truth for me I could
tell he was not in the relantionship fully either so I just pointed out
that I was not what he was looking for and the spark was not there for
me either in the end I think he was glad for I think he was afraid to
say anything for he did not want to hurt me either. Just wish all could
end that easy but they don't. But... I still say to be honest with
them. No yelling or fighting just lay it out what you see on both parts
you might be surprised that he could feel the same way but don't want to
hurt you either. Good luck girl.

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Sun 10/15/06 04:08 PM
WELL THERE REALY ISNT MUCH TOIT IT IS HARD AT FIRST BUT YOU JUST DO IT
LET THAT PERSON KNOW HOW YOU FEEL JUST KEEP IT REAL AND IF THEY WILL
EITHER STILL BE COOL WITH YOU AND YOU WILL STILL TALK HERE AND THERE OR
THEY WILL NOT WANT NOTHING TO DO WITH YOU AT ALL OR IT MIGHT TAKE THEM
SOMETIME TO GET OVER IT JUST KEEP IT REAL WHATEVER YOU DO I HOPE THAT I
WAS HELPFUL

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Sun 10/15/06 04:52 PM
don't beat around the bush with it. be straight forward and use tact
when you do it.

TERRANCE0's photo
Sun 10/15/06 06:02 PM
like king said dont beat around the bush just come out with it even if
you have to be rude letting your feelings get in the way will only make
it worse if you dont want to be with that person

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Sun 10/15/06 06:08 PM
I should practice to what I'm about to say but be just honestly and as
nicely as you can that's it's over between u two or u don't share the
same feelings as they do tore u it will be hard but no since leading on
something just not there:)

MightyBing's photo
Sun 10/15/06 06:28 PM
remember when steve martin did stad-up comedy?

he said you walk up to the girl and say

"I break with thee,

I break with thee,

I break with thee...

...and then you throw dog poop on her shoes."

I've nver tried it, but I think it would have the desired results. :)

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Sun 10/15/06 06:43 PM
lol, that's about the only way some people get the message too lol some
don't even get it then

EFP's photo
Sun 10/15/06 09:05 PM
Browneyez,
Just be straight up tell the person exactly how you feel. If you not
happy in the relationship the relationship as a whole suffers. If you
are not happy that individual should understand and respect that. Life
is short enjoy it live it and be happy. If they are crazy get a
restraining order.

EFP

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Sun 10/15/06 09:20 PM
just tell him is not working out, and I don't think it will.
be hones and tell him strait up.

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Mon 10/16/06 10:49 AM
dont call them back.