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Topic: 10 signs you are dating the wrong person
Totage Joined Sat 10/13/07 Posts: 24210	Wed 05/30/12 03:34 PM
I know I said fwb, but i'm really a one-woman man. I try not to get jealous, but it is hard to do not. If that made any sense. Jealousy is some times from insecurity. If you are constantly jealous, and it's not rational, you may be insecure. I said it was hard not to get jealous, but a little jealousy is normal I think, as long as you don't show it and ruin things. I agree, a little jealousy is normal, and no it's not harmful as long as it doesn't interfere with the relationship. I'm just saying that when it becomes an issue, it's usually because of insecurity.

singmesweet Joined Mon 07/28/08 Posts: 26661	Wed 05/30/12 04:00 PM
I know I said fwb, but i'm really a one-woman man. I try not to get jealous, but it is hard to do not. If that made any sense. Jealousy is some times from insecurity. If you are constantly jealous, and it's not rational, you may be insecure. I said it was hard not to get jealous, but a little jealousy is normal I think, as long as you don't show it and ruin things. I would say that if you get jealous in a fwb thing, that kind of "relationship" is probably not for you, as it's not a commitment type thing.

oldhippie1952 Joined Mon 03/14/11 Posts: 22693	Wed 05/30/12 04:26 PM
I know I said fwb, but i'm really a one-woman man. I try not to get jealous, but it is hard to do not. If that made any sense. Jealousy is some times from insecurity. If you are constantly jealous, and it's not rational, you may be insecure. I said it was hard not to get jealous, but a little jealousy is normal I think, as long as you don't show it and ruin things. I would say that if you get jealous in a fwb thing, that kind of "relationship" is probably not for you, as it's not a commitment type thing. You are confusing commitment with feelings. After you've been with someone a few times, it is hard not to have feelings.

unsure Joined Wed 08/16/06 Posts: 4886	Wed 05/30/12 04:32 PM
1. You dont feel like you can be yourself 2. You are unhappy most of the time. 3. They exhaust you. 4. You dont want to introduce them to friends (or vice versa) 5. You cant see them in your future (or vice versa) 6. You are like night and day. 7. You arent excited to see or hear from them. 8. You dont feel good about yourself when you are around them. 9. The cons of staying together outweigh the pros. 10. Your instincts are saying GET OUT!!. Eharmony staff http://advice.eharmony.com/dating/date-tips/ten-signs-you-are-dating-wrong-person?slide=9#main my last marriage hit a full 9 out of the 10.....the things we do for 'love' my ex hubby cheated before during and after we got married and i put up with the crap way before we got married i was pg with our son and i let a friend of mine stay for her and husband were having issue and that nite my ex hubby(bf at the time) tried getting down her pants all nite and she kept brushing him away she had a appt she had to go to the next morning and she called me to let me know what he tried to do and i confronted him while i was still on the phone with her and he was laughing about it i told him streght out i know her more than i know you and he didnt say anything more for he knew he was caught he cheated on me while we were separated and he had a son with that lady, and he cheated on her with his 2nd wife and there still together after 20yrs and im pretty sure he has cheated on her more than once i know my ex hubby You married him why? Why would you stay with him? Kid or no kid...never stay with a man that cheats on you!!

singmesweet Joined Mon 07/28/08 Posts: 26661	Wed 05/30/12 04:34 PM
I know I said fwb, but i'm really a one-woman man. I try not to get jealous, but it is hard to do not. If that made any sense. Jealousy is some times from insecurity. If you are constantly jealous, and it's not rational, you may be insecure. I said it was hard not to get jealous, but a little jealousy is normal I think, as long as you don't show it and ruin things. I would say that if you get jealous in a fwb thing, that kind of "relationship" is probably not for you, as it's not a commitment type thing. You are confusing commitment with feelings. After you've been with someone a few times, it is hard not to have feelings. Isn't that the point of a fwb arrangement? No commitment/no feelings? If it were more than that, than it would be another kind of relationship.

oldhippie1952 Joined Mon 03/14/11 Posts: 22693	Wed 05/30/12 05:47 PM
I know I said fwb, but i'm really a one-woman man. I try not to get jealous, but it is hard to do not. If that made any sense. Jealousy is some times from insecurity. If you are constantly jealous, and it's not rational, you may be insecure. I said it was hard not to get jealous, but a little jealousy is normal I think, as long as you don't show it and ruin things. I would say that if you get jealous in a fwb thing, that kind of "relationship" is probably not for you, as it's not a commitment type thing. You are confusing commitment with feelings. After you've been with someone a few times, it is hard not to have feelings. Isn't that the point of a fwb arrangement? No commitment/no feelings? If it were more than that, than it would be another kind of relationship. The point of a fwb relationship is to satisfy your urges with a "safe" person. If you don't get feelings, you are pretty cold. You can have feelings without commitment.

TammyA Joined Sat 03/10/12 Posts: 300	Wed 05/30/12 05:52 PM
I know I said fwb, but i'm really a one-woman man. I try not to get jealous, but it is hard to do not. If that made any sense. yes but jealousy chases the person away so its not good A little jealousy is good. At least you know the other person is afraid of losing you. (Something I read somewhere)

singmesweet Joined Mon 07/28/08 Posts: 26661	Wed 05/30/12 06:05 PM
The point of a fwb relationship is to satisfy your urges with a "safe" person. If you don't get feelings, you are pretty cold. You can have feelings without commitment. Well, it's going to be different for everyone. A fwb relationship can be tricky. It sounds more like you want to date the person, rather than just have sex.

Ghostrider2u Joined Thu 05/17/07 Posts: 6953	Wed 05/30/12 06:44 PM
if after 5 to 10 minutes in their presence...you get the irresistable urge to..... Upchuck toss cookies lose lunch drive the porcelien bus dredge guts throw up.............. odds are...... they ain't for U!!!!!!

oldhippie1952 Joined Mon 03/14/11 Posts: 22693	Wed 05/30/12 06:56 PM
The point of a fwb relationship is to satisfy your urges with a "safe" person. If you don't get feelings, you are pretty cold. You can have feelings without commitment. Well, it's going to be different for everyone. A fwb relationship can be tricky. It sounds more like you want to date the person, rather than just have sex. Nothing wrong with that.

singmesweet Joined Mon 07/28/08 Posts: 26661	Wed 05/30/12 06:56 PM
The point of a fwb relationship is to satisfy your urges with a "safe" person. If you don't get feelings, you are pretty cold. You can have feelings without commitment. Well, it's going to be different for everyone. A fwb relationship can be tricky. It sounds more like you want to date the person, rather than just have sex. Nothing wrong with that. Does she know you feel that way?

oldhippie1952 Joined Mon 03/14/11 Posts: 22693	Wed 05/30/12 06:59 PM
I'm not dating or anything, not ready.

singmesweet Joined Mon 07/28/08 Posts: 26661	Wed 05/30/12 07:21 PM
Oh, it sounded like you were talking about a specific person. So, that fwb relationship that you had feelings for was hypothetical? Ok.

oldhippie1952 Joined Mon 03/14/11 Posts: 22693	Wed 05/30/12 08:09 PM
Oh, it sounded like you were talking about a specific person. So, that fwb relationship that you had feelings for was hypothetical? Ok. Nope, she fell in love with someone and married them. I didn't lose anything cuz I'm a big boy.

MariahsFantasy Joined Mon 11/28/11 Posts: 6593	Wed 05/30/12 08:41 PM
Title should be amended to: Top 10 Signs you LIKE the wrong person.