Carrot......

Guys always say, "I'm different, I'm not like anybody else you've ever known."

But anybody can say anything.

The proof is in the actions.

the proof is in the pudding

I always go by actions lex........its hard to see those on the net but sometimes WORDS And feeling come out loud and clear!!!!

I dont want any of that pudding

It does hurt when you assume someone does you wrong, but something I learned in Church is that YOU ARE IN CONTROL OF YOUR FEELINGS. You can choose to hurt or choose not to hurt. I promise you that it works. Takes just a little bit of practice. Good Luck.

I *know* I'm not like "other guys" in the ways which are important to me, but those might not be the ways which are important to her. In some ways, I might be -just like- other guys.

Nurjoyce, I'm sure that situation has happened in my life, but its really just a misunderstanding. There are so many stereotyped qualities of guys, which ones were really in question? Were both parties really talking about the same thing?

i agree Massagetrade
i am not judging anyone

Humm all I can say is that if they are flirting with all the women they are just having fun and may not be here to find someone but here for the friends. And it could be that like is only one sided unless the guy himself says he is with a certain one tben most likely he is not. There are several of us that flirt and have a good time and that is all it is a good time nothing is even meant by it. But then most of those that do have that understanding its just for fun. And with this being the internet and everyone living a distance apart most the time it is all in fun.

Because you are allowing this conduct to happen. Thats why.