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Can anyone please tell me where I'm going wrong .... Maybe I am just unlucky in love. I though I had a lot going for me but I can just never seem to meet a half descent guy ... I'm not looking for perfection just a good guy with a few morals would do. !!
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Start seeking good men. Leave the guys alone. Nothing against them, it's just guys and women are not compatible. Guys and girls are, but if you're not having any luck with guys, I'm assuming you're a women, not a girl, and thus you may find what you want in a man, not a guy.
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I think maybe Ill stay single I can't do complicated any more.....
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Dating doesn't have to be complicated, but if you feel it's best that you be single for now, then do what you feel is best for you.
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The problem is there are so many guys out there that pretend to be just what you are looking for until they get what they want. Then they turn back into the real them. You just need to learn to see through the their masks... Good Luck
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Start seeking good men. Leave the guys alone. Nothing against them, it's just guys and women are not compatible. Guys and girls are, but if you're not having any luck with guys, I'm assuming you're a women, not a girl, and thus you may find what you want in a man, not a guy. Over thinking things a bit? You're a guy. You're a man. The terms are interchangeable. To the OP, there's not much to your profile. Take a look at some other profiles to see what people write and how they express themselves. Add more about you so that others get an idea of who you are. |
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No, there is a difference between a guy and a man.
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If all this talk about a guy versus a man sounds kind of criptic then read some T.D.Jakes and you will see how a man acts and where to set your standards.
If you are running int o a lot of guys you may want to change here you are hanging out look in a target rich environment. Yuys are going to hang out in bars. party places, and generally where it is easy to nake a fast buck with a minimal abount of effort. Guys are rule breakers and rebels with out a clue. Generally they have a poor track record in most things and usually a record if you look for it. A guy is always looking for a way to beat the system. A man seaks steady progress. He may not have the most glamourous job but he has had it for a while and will not mind making you wait so he can keep it since he knows the hallmark of a real man is being able to be a provider for himself and his family. If you want to meet a man yo go where he works, eats his lunch or deposites his check. A man may have hobbies , volunteer or even worship but it is not just for show and you are not going to get very far if you are just faking and interest in it to get close to him but if you do have something that you enjoy that is gender neutral it'd a venue. And no not every man is perfect but he doesn't make big attitude on his failings and may actually be working on them. He will try to live modestly, get more education, save some money, and try to take care of his health where he can. You want to meet a nam look at a community college, a geterans hall, or even a auto auction,, or a uniopn event. You can find a nab ib kune but you want to keep track of when he is on line. If if is chroniclly during work hours oru the wee hours of rhe morning you can bet he isn;r holding down a job and or he is seaking around so the wife won't catch him talking to you. |
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If all this talk about a guy versus a man sounds kind of criptic then read some T.D.Jakes and you will see how a man acts and where to set your standards. If you are running int o a lot of guys you may want to change here you are hanging out look in a target rich environment. Yuys are going to hang out in bars. party places, and generally where it is easy to nake a fast buck with a minimal abount of effort. Guys are rule breakers and rebels with out a clue. Generally they have a poor track record in most things and usually a record if you look for it. A guy is always looking for a way to beat the system. A man seaks steady progress. He may not have the most glamourous job but he has had it for a while and will not mind making you wait so he can keep it since he knows the hallmark of a real man is being able to be a provider for himself and his family. If you want to meet a man yo go where he works, eats his lunch or deposites his check. A man may have hobbies , volunteer or even worship but it is not just for show and you are not going to get very far if you are just faking and interest in it to get close to him but if you do have something that you enjoy that is gender neutral it'd a venue. And no not every man is perfect but he doesn't make big attitude on his failings and may actually be working on them. He will try to live modestly, get more education, save some money, and try to take care of his health where he can. You want to meet a nam look at a community college, a geterans hall, or even a auto auction,, or a uniopn event. You can find a nab ib kune but you want to keep track of when he is on line. If if is chroniclly during work hours oru the wee hours of rhe morning you can bet he isn;r holding down a job and or he is seaking around so the wife won't catch him talking to you. TY, good explanation. :) |
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Wow ur good .. That guy you dedcribed is what I keep meeting. Thanks everyone I'm gona take it all on board those masks are what's getting me I'm a very honest and straight forward person and I guess I almost assume everyone else is too. Thanks again I'm no longer looking for a guy in my life ! X
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i miisss u
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What ??? ....
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It's usually when you're NOT looking is when someone good comes along. For me anyway. I don't know. It seems when you put yourself out there & say "hey"...I'm available". This is what I'm looking for". It just puts too many expectations into play & you are usually just setting yourself up for disappointment.
Good luck! |
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Good grief, now we have to differentiate between 'guy' and 'man'.
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Edited by
sucra
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Thu 04/19/12 08:54 AM
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RE ; FilmFreek. Yes I know what u mean .... I think I just find it tough being single. Its nice to be held in the arms of a loved one at the end of tough day. |
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Yeah. I know what you mean. Companionship is always nice.
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