this is a very small company
no hr department
i haven't known him long enough to just ask him
the boss is good friends with him
i just want to discreetly find out what he did
ease my mind
he is fifty-something and it happened about 5 or so years ago so the whole 19-15 year old relationship is not possible

What ever you decide to do, Be very careful about your decision!!!
This could work out very bad for you in both ways...... once the guy knows you know he may turn all his attention your way if the offense
is bad enough!!!!!!! Or if him and your boss are that close and you bring this up, The boss could possibly turn on you and it may cost you your job!!!!!! So please be very careful about you decision!!!

If worse comes to worse you can always ask him if he enjoys the look of lust in a school girls eyes for a full grown harry man.

i'm not sure if that is what he did
all i know is that it's sexual abuse in the 1st degree

Seems like you may be worrying yourself for no reason. Unless he makes you feel uncomfortable, regardless of your knowledge of the offense, I wouldn't worry about it, unless of course he gives you a legitimate reason to become weary.

Hi, I would consider you look for another job. By the sounds of what you say and the unanswered questions and thoughts will play with your mind if you cannot dismiss them. Most likely you will not ever be comfortable or relaxed at your workplace knowing what you know.

This is a type of stress. Stress if not taken care of has its way of taking affect on your health over time. If this ex-sex offender has been there for 20 years and friends with your boss, I would suggest you look for another job, find one, then give notice and move on is another solution. Just a thought.

I think that is jumping the gun a bit. I haven't had any problems with him, and I've been here almost 6 years. I don't plan on staying here forever and it isn't that wonderful of a job, but it has it's perks.
The only thing that has changed is my discovery of what he did 5+ years ago. He hasn't ever threatened or even mentioned anything explicit and has always been nice.
Like I said before, it could be nothing and I'm worried for no reason. I'm not stressed over it, but I am 'aware' of it now.
If I find reason that I should be more leary of the situation I will definitely take action but right now...I'm going to research quietly and not worry TOO much about it.

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