Topic: HOW CAN I NOT LOVE YOU
bam09's photo
Tue 04/10/12 02:10 PM

You know what's sad about LOVE? It's when you happen to know that there's just no hope for being together yet you still pray to make it work.. It's when your mind says let go but your heart says hold on.. And most of all, its when no matter how you try to forget him you just can't.. because of the fact that you still love him and you just don't know why...


Try loving someone you've loved before and you'll realize that it will either lead to the same thing that happened before..not hard isn't it?..but why don't you try loving someone who doesn't love you back it's either you see yourself giving up or dying daily...

If you love and get hurt love more.. if you love more and get hurt more love even more.. if you love even more and hurt even more love some more until it hurts no more...


The gauge of how you treasure something or someone is not how happy you are with them..but how sad you are when you lose them...

One grows distant from another not because of indifference, but because of fear..there's the fear that the hurt gets greater as one get closer.. a recognition of tendency to fall deeply and consequently drown in a quicksand of stupid irrationalities.. sometimes what drives one way is not the absence of emotion..but the over whelming presence of it...

Falling in love is never a decision, always by chance.. staying in love is never a chance, always by choice... falling out of love is never a choice, always a decision... attraction comes to us by chance but true love that last is truly a choice.. fate brings you together,but it's still up to you to make it happen.. we may meet someone by chance, but loving and staying by someone is still a choice...

Not just because my eyes don't have tears it doesn't mean my heart doesn't cry... not just because you always see me strong it doesn't mean there's nothing wrong.. sometimes i choose to pretend i'm happy so i don't have to explain to people who would never understand.. smiling is always easier than explaining to all why i am sad.. it's never the tears that measure the pain, sometimes it's the smile that we fake.. a person who truly loves you is someone who sees the pain in your eyes..while everyone still believes in the smile on your face..

The person you love most has the capacity to make you the happiest person in the world and may give you the worst heartache you can never imagine.. time can heal the wounds but it can never get back what we once had and lost.. time can't tell when or how we would move on after all was said and done..

In life i have done every way of fighting..heard every painful truth, been in very heartbreaking scene and felt every dreadful feeling...i thought going through it all make me realize that i have to stop the fight at least to save a little for my self...but you know what's funny? it's when i seem to be so much tired to it all, but still i can't quit no matter how hard it is..and i have to continue hoping that one day i'll be able to find someone who could love me not just RIGHT but REAL..

Love is like giving someone a gun, having them point it at your heart and trusting to never full the trigger.. i don't know why we all hang on to something we know we're better of letting go..it's like we're scared to lose what we don't even really have..some of us say we'd rather have that something than absolutely nothing, but the truth is to have it halfway is harder than not having it at all... i want to know someone who could ease the pain that i have,who could hold me tight, the one who will never let me go..

Time may take us away, space may keep us apart, rumors and hurts may break us down yet no matter where life leads us i will always be here and i'll never stop caring...

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Tue 04/10/12 02:14 PM
..but how sad you are when you lose them


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Hemmy1991's photo
Tue 04/10/12 02:18 PM
I had to read all that.....Am in a similar situation...

bam09's photo
Wed 04/11/12 01:34 AM
Yes it is really sad but we have to accept that everything happens for a reason and whatever the reason is, maybe it's Gods plan..:smile:

Imsorry's photo
Thu 04/12/12 02:45 PM
Bam09 am speechless yet i feel and want to talk.whatever u wrote sincerely speaking is attractive yet so painful in a way.but its all abt love
they say love is pain and pain is love.you rock lady