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Topic: Is that fair...?
prashant01 Joined Wed 05/06/09 Posts: 14148	Fri 04/06/12 12:41 PM Edited by prashant01 on Fri 04/06/12 12:58 PM
To my surprise she was cursing him like anything... actually she was interested in him but got to know that he is interested in someone else & is not paying any attention to herself despite of her all tries.... It was an awful experience for me...I wonder how can people change up their mind & language so easily every moment... I'm sure such people would start flirting again the next moment even if the person that they are interested in just gives a smile to them.. Is it fair on her part to curse him if he isn't showing any interest in her? Is it fair on her part to restart loving ( flirt in fact) him if somehow he turns towards her?

pyxxie13 Joined Wed 09/28/11 Posts: 3835	Fri 04/06/12 12:43 PM
Prash.... you left me confused ... What are you talking about??

prashant01 Joined Wed 05/06/09 Posts: 14148	Fri 04/06/12 12:46 PM Edited by prashant01 on Fri 04/06/12 12:49 PM
Prash.... you left me confused ... What are you talking about?? Can you pl. elaborate,what exactly confused you,my frined?? I mean to say.. Is it fair to curse a person about whom you were having love feelings before some time? Is it fair to again flirt with him if he is responding you after all that happening?

TxsGal3333 Joined Tue 09/05/06 Posts: 76461	Fri 04/06/12 12:49 PM
Prash.... you left me confused ... What are you talking about?? Can you pl. elaborate,what exactly confused you,my frined?? The whole post I have no idea what your asking or saying it..Maybe a break down in language...just saying you might want to re-word what you said for it does not make sense...

prashant01 Joined Wed 05/06/09 Posts: 14148	Fri 04/06/12 12:51 PM
Prash.... you left me confused ... What are you talking about?? Can you pl. elaborate,what exactly confused you,my frined?? The whole post I have no idea what your asking or saying it..Maybe a break down in language...just saying you might want to re-word what you said for it does not make sense... So sorry,sweet smily... hell with my english... still not improving.... BTW...I tried above....hope that is sufficient...

pyxxie13 Joined Wed 09/28/11 Posts: 3835	Fri 04/06/12 12:56 PM
I can not say it is or isn't fair. Sounds like it is hurtful and you may want to make it clear. Every person views things differently and they may not be aware how they have hurt you.

Ladylid2012 Joined Sun 07/05/09 Posts: 42269	Fri 04/06/12 12:57 PM
Conditional! Her feeling's about him are about her...not him.

prashant01 Joined Wed 05/06/09 Posts: 14148	Fri 04/06/12 01:06 PM
I can not say it is or isn't fair. Sounds like it is hurtful and you may want to make it clear. Every person views things differently and they may not be aware how they have hurt you. You are right,it must be hurtful for her,but still is it fair to curse them whom we loved before?Particularly when he hasn't cheated. You have correctly stated there,if one isn't there at all in his mind,then how can he be aware of the caused hurt!

pyxxie13 Joined Wed 09/28/11 Posts: 3835	Fri 04/06/12 01:13 PM
It sounds like she is reacting to her own guilt. Sometimes you see a man accusing his woman of cheating when she is not...but what is happening is that he is cheating and is reacting in guilt himself by accusing her. Or vice verse.

Ghostrider2u Joined Thu 05/17/07 Posts: 6953	Fri 04/06/12 03:26 PM


Unknow Joined Sat 10/21/06 Posts: 3353	Fri 04/06/12 03:52 PM
uhhhhhh...... yes!

BettyB Joined Tue 01/29/08 Posts: 31912	Fri 04/06/12 04:11 PM
To my surprise she was cursing him like anything... actually she was interested in him but got to know that he is interested in someone else & is not paying any attention to herself despite of her all tries.... It was an awful experience for me...I wonder how can people change up their mind & language so easily every moment... I'm sure such people would start flirting again the next moment even if the person that they are interested in just gives a smile to them.. Is it fair on her part to curse him if he isn't showing any interest in her? Is it fair on her part to restart loving ( flirt in fact) him if somehow he turns towards her? The truth is trying to figure out what makes people do what they do is harder than winning the lottery But I will flirt with you anytime

Ghostrider2u Joined Thu 05/17/07 Posts: 6953	Fri 04/06/12 04:13 PM
Brother Prash....... In spite of the slight language barrier.... I usually have NO problem understanding you....... Have you been..... Drinking?????

singmesweet Joined Mon 07/28/08 Posts: 26661	Fri 04/06/12 04:21 PM
I have no idea what's going on here.

Totage Joined Sat 10/13/07 Posts: 24210	Fri 04/06/12 04:24 PM
It's not the feelings that are fair or unfair, but they are handled. Every situation is different, so in some cases it's fair, in others it may not be so fair.

Ruth34611 Joined Sat 08/02/08 Posts: 32401	Fri 04/06/12 06:26 PM
All's fair in love and war.

krupa Joined Thu 07/03/08 Posts: 18651	Fri 04/06/12 06:41 PM
Soooooo...you don't understand women.....? Welcome to Earth. They are wonderful and soft and squishy....they can make you happy beyond belief and they can make you wanna kill yourself.... But, From what I read... I gotta say this.... Don't take that flakey b!Tch back! 7 billion people on the planet and you are gonna put up with that?...Hell No. I can only speak from what I know as truth Brother...when I am the best man I can be...love hard...laugh hard....war hard..., My life goes very well. When I allowed myself to have anyone else dictate things to me....it never worked out well. Be your own man Prashant. (I got nothing to gain but, I am just telling you as a friend....walk away from that one brother)

mg1959 Joined Thu 04/05/07 Posts: 7872	Sat 04/07/12 02:45 AM
Soooooo...you don't understand women.....? Welcome to Earth. They are wonderful and soft and squishy....they can make you happy beyond belief and they can make you wanna kill yourself.... But, From what I read... I gotta say this.... Don't take that flakey b!Tch back! 7 billion people on the planet and you are gonna put up with that?...Hell No. I can only speak from what I know as truth Brother...when I am the best man I can be...love hard...laugh hard....war hard..., My life goes very well. When I allowed myself to have anyone else dictate things to me....it never worked out well. Be your own man Prashant. (I got nothing to gain but, I am just telling you as a friend....walk away from that one brother) Ya know krupa, there are 7 billion people out there. If we get them each to give us a dollar and we split it 50/50? I'm just sayin.

Conrad_73 Joined Sat 09/29/07 Posts: 22488	Sat 04/07/12 03:43 AM
To my surprise she was cursing him like anything... actually she was interested in him but got to know that he is interested in someone else & is not paying any attention to herself despite of her all tries.... It was an awful experience for me...I wonder how can people change up their mind & language so easily every moment... I'm sure such people would start flirting again the next moment even if the person that they are interested in just gives a smile to them.. Is it fair on her part to curse him if he isn't showing any interest in her? Is it fair on her part to restart loving ( flirt in fact) him if somehow he turns towards her? seems you have started in the middle of the story.

prashant01 Joined Wed 05/06/09 Posts: 14148	Sat 04/07/12 07:14 AM
Brother Prash....... In spite of the slight language barrier.... I usually have NO problem understanding you....... Have you been..... Drinking????? Oh yeah....I daily drink.... ...water,milk & tea.... Sorry bro,my english is really very poor...