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Bataki Joined Thu 03/03/11 Posts: 28	Mon 04/02/12 10:44 AM
LISTEN, do not judge or speak until you have heard the words that another wishes to convey. If we do not listen to each other, we often end up with a false understanding and that only pushes us further apart.

patsfan64 Joined Fri 03/14/08 Posts: 1258	Mon 04/02/12 10:49 AM
LISTEN, do not judge or speak until you have heard the words that another wishes to convey. If we do not listen to each other, we often end up with a false understanding and that only pushes us further apart. I can't judge or speak but you can tell me to LISTEN? That doesn't seem very fair.

LookinRound Joined Sun 12/02/07 Posts: 7894	Mon 04/02/12 10:49 AM
True listening seems to have become a lost art.

singmesweet Joined Mon 07/28/08 Posts: 26661	Mon 04/02/12 10:52 AM
So, we're supposed to walk up to strangers and listen without saying a word? What about on a site like this? How does that work?

mg1959 Joined Thu 04/05/07 Posts: 7872	Mon 04/02/12 10:54 AM
OK, get it off your chest, I'm listening!

tombraider Joined Wed 09/12/07 Posts: 5042	Mon 04/02/12 11:10 AM
..obviously you haven't heard that opinions and assumptions have become the new truths and facts..it makes justification a whole lot easier...

pyxxie13 Joined Wed 09/28/11 Posts: 3835	Mon 04/02/12 12:51 PM
Eh, people just get all bent out of shape when you jump into their thread and say what is really on your mind. Then they chew you out and try to make you feel dumb just to make themselves feel better about their sassy crybaby junk. I laugh to myself and feel sad for them..then move on. Thank goodness for freedom of speech!

boonedoggy61 Joined Fri 09/09/11 Posts: 10425	Mon 04/02/12 02:21 PM


yellowrose10 Joined Tue 12/11/07 Posts: 52804	Mon 04/02/12 02:27 PM
MY opinion is...people form opinions. To me a judgement is slamming the gavel down without all of the evidence.

singmesweet Joined Mon 07/28/08 Posts: 26661	Mon 04/02/12 02:40 PM
Eh, people just get all bent out of shape when you jump into their thread and say what is really on your mind. Then they chew you out and try to make you feel dumb just to make themselves feel better about their sassy crybaby junk. I laugh to myself and feel sad for them..then move on. Thank goodness for freedom of speech! Didn't you know you're supposed to agree with the person who posted the thread, no matter what?

Ghostrider2u Joined Thu 05/17/07 Posts: 6953	Mon 04/02/12 03:20 PM
Pfffffttttttttttttt............ I agree.......... To disagree!!!!!!!!!!

Unknow Joined Sat 10/21/06 Posts: 3353	Mon 04/02/12 03:38 PM
Dont judge others until you have walked a mile in thier shoes......................................................................................................................Then judege them all you want because you are a mile away and you have thier shoes

Godiva Joined Tue 12/09/08 Posts: 5330	Mon 04/02/12 03:44 PM
This isn't the prologue to a sob story is it? I can't take another one honestly.

Ghostrider2u Joined Thu 05/17/07 Posts: 6953	Mon 04/02/12 03:50 PM
could be a lead in...to a...... Nice Guy thread!!!

krupa Joined Thu 07/03/08 Posts: 18651	Mon 04/02/12 04:52 PM
Ya'll be nice. I am betting this ain't a "Nice Guy" thread....more like being a bit frustrated at gettin judged for being Nigerian. A few of those felows have posted about it and it seems to be a dominant theme with the ones who are actually here to chat instead of earning a reputation as a scammer. If I was from Nigeria...I would feel the same damned way. Unless I am wrong...then just ignore my babbling.

Ghostrider2u Joined Thu 05/17/07 Posts: 6953	Mon 04/02/12 06:18 PM
MY opinion is...people form opinions. To me a judgement is slamming the gavel down without all of the evidence. My thoughts exactly. We all make judgements as we navigate the day. People seem to confuse 'passing judgement' with 'passing sentence', or 'passing gas'. Isn't passing gas, passing judgement on what you ate and passing sentence on your ......undergarments?????

roadlesstrvld Joined Fri 11/26/10 Posts: 725	Mon 04/02/12 07:31 PM
Dont judge others until you have walked a mile in thier shoes......................................................................................................................Then judege them all you want because you are a mile away and you have thier shoes

jemare Joined Fri 04/24/09 Posts: 2105	Mon 04/02/12 07:53 PM
I don't usually pass judgement. I can sometimes listen, but over time....actions always speak louder than words.

FETTS61 Joined Sat 08/18/07 Posts: 31425	Mon 04/02/12 07:55 PM
Dont judge others until you have walked a mile in thier shoes......................................................................................................................Then judege them all you want because you are a mile away and you have thier shoes Can i get a hell yeah!!!

pyxxie13 Joined Wed 09/28/11 Posts: 3835	Mon 04/02/12 07:56 PM
Eh, people just get all bent out of shape when you jump into their thread and say what is really on your mind. Then they chew you out and try to make you feel dumb just to make themselves feel better about their sassy crybaby junk. I laugh to myself and feel sad for them..then move on. Thank goodness for freedom of speech! Didn't you know you're supposed to agree with the person who posted the thread, no matter what? OH! Is that what I been doing wrong?!