How cruel the love feelings & destiny are!

When love feelings arises in your mind,you start seeking someone's love,when you notice absence of his / her attention;it hurts you.
have you ever given it a thought,there could be someone else who is expecting your attention & love too?

I'm sure no one cares & bothers about it

Isn't love selfish that way?

Love is different for each of us....... some are greedy & selfish with their LOVE.......some are forgiving & true........ some are caring & generous......... Some are patient & kind......Some are insecure & demanding!

If that makes any sense......

. . . but Christ's love ,the GREATEST of ALL!

It means that whoever loves to all is not considered as human by human being,am I correct?

very good example kic.

My question is, 'how if the neglected pot is of someone else who is waiting for reciprocating action from you?'

Well if 2 people are in love and 1 feels like that other is not showing to them that attention and emotion back , its time to communicate ask them how they feel tell them how you feel, i mean could it be that person been having ruff days at work and that their mind is on something else not even thinking of the love the person is showing or maybe health problems they are having and keeping it to them self communication is a big part of love too see if someone is feeling hurt from lack of love communication is the best way to tell them and all your feelings inside and out :) good luck cheers

if you have good communication then you should never have the problem cause you will know why the person is doing it and they know why you do what you do right? its so simple my friend ,to many run off and cheat or never talk to their partner their feelings inside and out and the love, i mean not just tell them i mean sit down discuss it and tell them your hurt in side express feeling in communicating:)then you know if its you or them and if its time to separate or time to say sorry i didn't know you felt that way :)so simple:)

communication with them would help then you know why they do it right? simple and you know if its time to break up or stay and see if they show the love :)

Yes bro,whatever u r saying is true but I think u r diverting from my point.

My point is about them who waits for someone else's response while someone else is waiting for their response.

Of course as you said correctly,communication is the key for resolving this issue too,but usually in such cases,second person who is waiting for response do usually know that the expected person is waiting for someone else's response,so they usually refrain themself from expression of their love.

This could be a endless chain for example

Honey loves money
Money loves funny
funny loves cunny
cunny loves tony
& tony loves Honey

All are waiting for responses

If they thinks a little about other's too & looks around for where larger reservoir of love for them exist,they will find their true love easily.

I hope now u understand,what I'm saying.

The great philosopher George Costanza once said, "When you like them, they don't like you. When they like you, you don't like them."

Maybe George was wrong.

May be u r right,2km

he said,'he said once' only.It means he realized his mistake & never repeated it again.

I don't know, I've found it to be surprisingly and consistently accurate....!!

Well, that's just me. I'm sure not everybody has experienced that same thing!

But, as an example -- there was someone I was kind of interested in for awhile. So I tried to let it be known in any number of ways that would be obvious to anyone possessing fully functional sensory apparatus -- and nothing! I would have been better off seeking attention from a statue of Napoleon, if there was one around here.

I totally understand,(((SexyLexy))).

good example,bro!

In all seriousness, I've seen this phenomenon you speak of.

I'm almost never attracted to anybody anymore. Really only this one person in the past 3 years or so. And she is totally oblivious to me. If I threw dynamite at her, the dynamite would somehow miraculously disappear into thin air before it ever got near her.

She is cosmologically NOT allowed to notice me.

On the other hand, the ones who do notice me are always the ones I could not possibly get involved with, for any one or more reasons.

I suspect this is some natural (?) "Law of the Universe," on the order of Murphy's Law but a little more fine-tuned so that I'm the only one who has to suffer with it.

Well,
it is what it is....