First off, I'm sure this will be very un-popular but too bad lol. Delete it if you wish.
WHY is it that I read so many posts about how horrible men are on here? This is a dating site and well, if you hate men so much, why are you even here? Now understand that I do know that some of these posts made are all in good fun BUT, many of them are also serious so lets not go and say that everyone is just joking ok?
If you have had problems with men in your life, I'm sorry but for you to sit on here and just bash all men because of it, well that makes me a bit ticked. Not to mention that most guys take that as a red flag to stay as far away from you as possible. Maybe that is what you want?
So, why do you do it?
Ok, you may delete this now

i don't think i have done any men bashing, but if i do please feel free to tell me so i can correct it.

no one said anything bad about guys.
my post was in a post about women and what they really want!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
why is okay to bash the women?

hi me either

Thats true too, why would guys bash women? BUT, if you look around on this site, I promise you that you will find more women bashing men than men bashing women. Take a look, I did before I posted this.

there are just as many "bad" women as "bad" guys.
i do not judge anyone.
everyone is entitled to their opinions based on their
experience...and that is what that is, their opinion--not right
or wrong.
i am open minded and know there is a wonderful guy out there for me

b/c so many of them (women) have been hurt and express their feelings more than men will admit they let a woman get to them and hurt them it's the manly thing to do...just my 2 cents

It's life dude. It's more common that women are more devastated from relationships ending they pent frustrations where they can relate to other women. I AM NOT saying this goes for all, I was raised by all women and this is the common occurance.. your best bet to deal, we as men never get our ways :P

wow--k2theb
some raised you right LOL

For as long as I've been here, there have been posts like "Why do all men _________ ?" or "Why are all women ___________ ?"

At this point, I believe 99% of these are just someone blowing off steam (which is a perfectly understandable thing, and I certainly wouldn't try to stop them) -- because any rational person would know, after 12.3 seconds of contemplation, that not ALL men do _________ and not ALL women are __________ .

Overgeneralization is easy, it's just never very accurate....

Interesting that you found more women bashing men than the other way around. I'll accept your assessment; I certainly haven't done one of my own, and I never thought to do such a comparison before.

OK not everyone does the bashing, but of those who do seems to be about the same number of men as well as women, this is not all one gender doing it.

Sorry but I guess I'm not nice enough to just let someone have their way cause they cry and moan about things more. I'm certainly not gonna sit here and tell women everything they want to hear just so they will like me. Thats stupid and that would be fake. If that makes me a jerk, well so be it
It just annoys me thats all.

and kudos to you for stating your opinion at least someone is honest about the way they feel and not just say what they want a woman to hear

I like the bashing threads. They give real insight. They help me a lot. Why just the other day it helped me to see that I was still bashing my ex. I haven't been married to my ex in over seven years so why in the heck am I still bashing her? It helped me personally. Another way the bashing thread helps me is even after all the changes I have made in my life is I find in some ways I haven't changed at all. It is a real eye opener for me. It does help me to move on in my life but for some just experiencing for the first time I guess they might take it as different.

So a woman saying "reasons why dogs are better than men" help you?


joyce- sarcasm I detect ? :(

I am in no way talking trash but you help you, no one else but it does take encouragement to lead you in the right direction if thats what you meant...

All it tells me is that person has not moved on yet and they are to be left alone because obviously they are not ready to be with anyone yet. OR they hold grudges and that also is not a good thing at all.

True but those are positive things, too if you take it in the right way. The truth will set you free. It does take me in the right direction. True, I am not ready, yet. I still have unresolved issues but there are many who have moved on. I have found help here to deal with grudges. Its all good to me. Imagine what you would have to pay to get some of the advice on here and how many would actually pay for it or even accept it.

Sorry, men just keep their mouths shut so they don,t look so foolish. Women are more open about what happens to them.
Come on sincere, look at the real world, some men are jerks, make more noise. Squeking wheel gets the attention.
Sorry but the truth hurts.

so are you saying that women look foolish oldsage? LOL kidding settle down.