how do u get a honest guy

with a gun to his head.

First, you get you a normal guy.
Then you change him.

First, get to know him and watch him, anything in the least that signals dishonesty, next!

they are out there - it helps if u are also honest

Stop worrying about the guys, and go for the men.

Bait your traps with beer, bacon and porn...you will snag honest guys....and what you don't take home, you can sell for dog food.

Have you met any American men? We are all dishonest. But, not necessarily in bad ways.

Listen to what they say. Liars have a basic pervasive character flaw and lie often when they don't even need to. If a guy starts out telling you that hou are the sun and the moon and the stars and you are a good person with the normal fobials you have to figure that the BS meter is on over drive. Most of the time it isn't going to be that obvious but if you start to notice things are consistently inaccurate or has some confuseing explanation then the real deal is going to be hard to find. One thing noticeable about chronic liars is they have few long term healthy relationships. Often bad credit. And usually a series of people who are superficially friendly but don't quite act like they are domvortable about having them around.

Well...you have to snatch him from a crib, lock him up in a closet until he is legal and don't allow him to mingle with the world.
If that proves to be too difficult..try accepting the person for who they are.