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Topic: Is this how it really works?
HumbleEagle Joined Thu 03/01/12 Posts: 8	Wed 03/07/12 03:30 AM
Since i joined this dating site for nearly a week now, things have not been working out as imagined. i have never recieved even a single nurge from any girl. so am ceasing this opportunity to ask the peaple before me if this is how it really works. I desprately need a lady for a serious relationship.

Down2earthdebbie Joined Tue 12/05/06 Posts: 6097	Wed 03/07/12 04:27 AM
Yes it really works.....I have met many people on this site who are real life true friends........ I use this site for entertainment .......but, I still continue to meet some really great people.....as far as the relationship part well as in real life that can happen wherever or whenever ...just have no expectations and it takes time for people to get to know you & these Threads are the best way to meet people (good luck)

Sin_and_Sorrow Joined Sun 01/01/12 Posts: 5757	Wed 03/07/12 04:48 AM
Since i joined this dating site for nearly a week now, things have not been working out as imagined. i have never recieved even a single nurge from any girl. so am ceasing this opportunity to ask the peaple before me if this is how it really works. I desprately need a lady for a serious relationship. Denote the bold print now above. (Response in order) A. A week? Really? Little quick to give up, dun'cha think? I know lots of people have met other people on here. I met my soul mate on here a few weeks ago. All is great. My first time on this site, I was around for almost eight (8) months and never met anyone of "value". This time, thought I'd try it out and be more patient. Catch my drift? B. I don't think you want to truly be "nurged". Nudges aren't especially great either. C. Don't be "desperate". Being desperate results in hastened actions that leads to long term regret. Take your time, make sure she is "right" before "settling" for the first one. Even a fisherman throws back a few fish before he finally catches the "one" he was after. Maybe you'll get lucky and she'll be the first one that bites, but don't rush it. "Love is an art form. All great art takes time, patience, and determination. Only then will art, like love, become a true masterpiece." It took Da Vinci 12 years just to paint the lips of Mona Lisa. ..just saying.

eileena9 Joined Fri 04/13/07 Posts: 28211	Wed 03/07/12 05:30 AM
Sin_and_Sorrow.... I think he meant to say "SIEZING" (sp?) and not "CEASING"..... "taking" not "stopping"

Sin_and_Sorrow Joined Sun 01/01/12 Posts: 5757	Wed 03/07/12 05:34 AM
Sin_and_Sorrow.... I think he meant to say "SIEZING" (sp?) and not "CEASING"..... "taking" not "stopping" Well, I wasn't going to chastise his grammar, but if you want me to: (Since I'm big on it.) Since I joined this dating site nearly a week ago, things have not been working out as I imagined. I have never received even a single nudge from any girl. So I am seizing this opportunity to ask the people before me if this is how it really works. I desperately need a lady for a serious relationship. There. Much better. :P

eileena9 Joined Fri 04/13/07 Posts: 28211	Wed 03/07/12 05:40 AM Edited by eileena9 on Wed 03/07/12 05:42 AM
I have even gone so far as break an original post into paragraphs and sentences, using full words, in my responses just so I could make out what was being asked.

2KidsMom Joined Tue 09/30/08 Posts: 58206	Wed 03/07/12 06:17 AM
Welcome and best wishes

wolfchic Joined Wed 09/26/07 Posts: 8036	Wed 03/07/12 07:07 AM
Welcome!

MilfMissy Joined Wed 02/29/12 Posts: 122	Wed 03/07/12 08:13 AM
That was your first post?? Woah! Come on...show yourself. Use the forums alot more. You'll be suprised at the turn of events. PLS, DON'T be desperate.

Sin_and_Sorrow Joined Sun 01/01/12 Posts: 5757	Wed 03/07/12 08:14 AM
That was your first post?? Woah! Come on...show yourself. Use the forums alot more. You'll be suprised at the turn of events. PLS, DON'T be desperate. Yeah, seriously. Look at that smile. Would she lie to you? A guy in koala suit might, but a smile like that doesn't. :P

MilfMissy Joined Wed 02/29/12 Posts: 122	Wed 03/07/12 08:43 AM
That was your first post?? Woah! Come on...show yourself. Use the forums alot more. You'll be suprised at the turn of events. PLS, DON'T be desperate. Yeah, seriously. Look at that smile. Would she lie to you? A guy in koala suit might, but a smile like that doesn't. :P Oh my! Lmao :*

pyxxie13 Joined Wed 09/28/11 Posts: 3835	Wed 03/07/12 02:18 PM
Click on the "Community" and try the forums! One post... how do you expect to find this person when nobody knows who you are or that you even exist.

Shy_Emo_chick Joined Fri 04/01/11 Posts: 4393	Thu 03/08/12 07:43 AM
Sorry to break it to you, but uh, this IS how it works. Yes. This is reality. Unless you're more comfortable living inside your imagination, which can be a good thing, but not exactly beneficial. Desperation sounds right on. You expected to have a woman contact you after ONE WEEK. Anywho, welcome. Being patient is a virtue. Nuff said :D

Down2earthdebbie Joined Tue 12/05/06 Posts: 6097	Thu 03/08/12 04:54 PM
That was your first post?? Woah! Come on...show yourself. Use the forums alot more. You'll be suprised at the turn of events. PLS, DON'T be desperate. Yeah, seriously. Look at that smile. Would she lie to you? A guy in koala suit might, but a smile like that doesn't. :P Hey babe I missing you.

cottonelle Joined Fri 06/27/08 Posts: 3594	Thu 03/08/12 05:48 PM
Since i joined this dating site for nearly a week now, things have not been working out as imagined. i have never recieved even a single nurge from any girl. so am ceasing this opportunity to ask the peaple before me if this is how it really works. I desprately need a lady for a serious relationship. get a damn blow up doll and quit your whinning

jtip1977 Joined Mon 11/12/07 Posts: 10410	Thu 03/08/12 06:22 PM Edited by jtip1977 on Thu 03/08/12 06:23 PM
You have beautiful eyes sir

MilfMissy Joined Wed 02/29/12 Posts: 122	Thu 03/08/12 10:36 PM
That was your first post?? Woah! Come on...show yourself. Use the forums alot more. You'll be suprised at the turn of events. PLS, DON'T be desperate. Yeah, seriously. Look at that smile. Would she lie to you? A guy in koala suit might, but a smile like that doesn't. :P Hey babe I missing you. hey dearie! :* :*

MilfMissy Joined Wed 02/29/12 Posts: 122	Thu 03/08/12 10:40 PM
Since i joined this dating site for nearly a week now, things have not been working out as imagined. i have never recieved even a single nurge from any girl. so am ceasing this opportunity to ask the peaple before me if this is how it really works. I desprately need a lady for a serious relationship. get a damn blow up doll and quit your whinning LMAO. #mean

HumbleEagle Joined Thu 03/01/12 Posts: 8	Fri 03/09/12 07:28 AM
Since i joined this dating site for nearly a week now, things have not been working out as imagined. i have never recieved even a single nurge from any girl. so am ceasing this opportunity to ask the peaple before me if this is how it really works. I desprately need a lady for a serious relationship. get a damn blow up doll and quit your whinning

HumbleEagle Joined Thu 03/01/12 Posts: 8	Fri 03/09/12 07:31 AM
I am in need of a human partner and not a doll, true love and not sex.