I don't normally post on the forums, but maybe I should start doing so!
Right, to my question. I message fellow users but I never get replies, I don't send any nasty, crude messages like "hey, wanna meet up? fancy some fun?"
I send genuine, friendly messages describing myself and saying what I'm here for and I've been on here for a few months but had no such luck yet. I'm starting to lose faith :(
Does anyone have tips for messaging fellow users? I don't think I'm saying the wrong stuff or maybe no ones interested haha!
Thanks,

9/10 won't respond. It's just how it goes.

Move to the states, we're much looser

Keep sending. Also find something interesting in their profile and ask about it. Like, who is the creepy dude they're standing next to in the second picture.

Mariah, I would love to move to the states! Either NYC or Seattle :)
I always ask about the persons interests and sometimes we even have stuff in common!
I guess I'll have to keep trying, thanks guys x

Join the forums more!

Seattle is a great city.

u and both man...idk..im losing faith in this site as well -_-

I don,t get replies over one time. So far I wouldn't date anyone who has favored me!!
John Henry

There's nothing wrong with your profile any ways. Id say just join in the forums you'll meet loads of people there.

I find that people don't really bother with me either, granted there's loads that email me about my looks and then of course there's the big one, they all say the same thing, I'm too far away. So I don't bother even replying to these guys now. I'm not looking for a marriage proposal or anything, a bit of actual conversation wouldn't go a miss though.

I'm only sticking around for the forums, they're pretty cool once ya get the hang of things.

Good luck

Its luck of the draw dude. When I stopped sending out emails and checking around the site like it was a big mall, I got some attention. Mainly because of the forums. I'd post more here if I were you and just chill, see what happens. You may or may not find what you are looking for. You may get rejected a few times, but I think that's how it is in the offline dating world too. Just be yourself man. You are your own golden ticket to attracting like-minded people who may be what you're looking for. Stick to your guns and be real.

Whew, ok, now I'm done with serious stuff.

Just tell them you're a musician, chicks LOVE it. I don't recommend LA, NYC is where its at, where the real artists are. Cheers!

Are you actually saying these words? I scared of the rain.

Rather than having the messages focus on you, find something in their profile that you like and bring that up. Give them something to actually respond to.

I live in Oregon, remember? Rain rain rain.

Sorry bout that. Nobody's perfect man.

I know, that's why I'm still talking to you.

I'm keeping this in mind.

Now it makes sense

Musicians are hotttt, especially rockers.

We can always spot the tourists. They're the ones with umbrellas.