I'm a great catch. I only get men who want a bed buddy (which i REFUSE to be) or if I'm really interested and he says he is too, he always has drama. What happened to spending REAL TIME to get to know someone?
Very Frustrating! !

It's very frustrating because all the pigs ruin it

I'm pretty happy with Mingle so far...I quit the other sites, and like the scumbag scammer sites they are, two of them sent me messages claiming someone wanted to meet me. Yeah, right...months of nothing, now all of a sudden, two completely different sites, which I quit within minutes of each other, have members that want to meet me. I'll send them more money right now!

Here, you have the forums, and you have the opportunity to reveal more of yourself than you do anywhere else.

Most importantly, really key features are free here, and you never get that anywhere else. Try finding out if someone has looked at your profile on another site...or try responding to an interest, and all you get are billing information pages.

It is a wonderful tool.

Like pre-screening for an illness.
You can have a lot of fun getting
to know someone online before
committing to meeting them.
What more could you ask for?

Welcome, from the Oregon coast :-)

I met men on Plenty Of Fish and THAT was totally free. I just got on this website and quit that one because I kept seeing the same ol' pics! LOL
Good luck and God bless

Thank you for the welcome!
I guess "looking" for someone for years has made me frustrated as well. LOL

What kind of drama?
Baby Mama drama
Can't find the right job drama
Mom's kickin' me out drama
Only want a friend (even though I chose "long term" on my profile) drama
Need I go on? LOL
DRAMA

I wouldn't say I'm frustrated -- more like "resigned to reality," I suppose.

I'm a great catch, too (or so they tell me) but nobody is really looking for whatever it is I have to offer.

C'est la vie....and welcome to the site! Best people on the internet are here!

Hmm, do you think that might be more your frustration than the actual dating site? I am sure the same frustrations are out there whether its online dating or not. I think though coming on the forums is a great way to meet some good people and who knows what may come of it. I wish you the best.

Wow...no wonder you're frustrated. I wouldn't call the above "drama", I'd call them "Okay, thanks, bye!".

I agree with what you say about being resigned to reality but unlike you I know I am not a great catch as I have nothing to offer. That being said, I am not complaining;except for my crummy job; life is pretty sweet.

i new my girlfriend thouth the internet site and we did our best to know each other and by the end i met her

we flay for deferent countries to meet and spend nice time together
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but in fact most of the pepele they wait for love to vome to them while they are setting doing nothing

if you search for love you have to (do )for it not only say and keep complaining of your luck

LMAO- Mommy's kicking him out! Are you trying to rob the cradle?

Reading profiles and such is a given.
I do that too.
: )

Thx Les. Hope so.
Good luck.

Thx Lex. Hope so.
Good luck.

lol entertaining thread

@ Navygirl
Oh! Dating sucks period! LOL. Online dating is really just blind dates 2012 style! LOL
Thanks, girl. Good luck to you too! God bless